Recent content by Altruistic Muse

Yeh, I think the first time I realised it wasn't what you'd call a crush, is when I had a mini obsession with my 80 year old hypnotherapist :p. I would agree that these are people you learn from and the sequence is important. But I do find it uncomfortable. I would much rather feel indifferent...

Hi there. Long time no see! Like... Years. Ha, I've come back on here because I've noticed a pattern in my life and wonderf if others can relate. Usually at times when I'm perhaps feeling a little insecure about myself... Maybe in a new job or new phase of life... Ai tend to meet someone who I...

Hahaha. Yeh. It's pretty strange, I thought for a long time he was intp. Then I realise he's definitely more intested in 'how' than 'why'. But that said, his intuition is well-developed, and he likes psycho-analysing people. We've had a deep connection from the start; he often finishes my...

Thanks La Sagna. This is an ongoing thing, as I've been a member of the forum for probably five years now, and it's happened several times before. However as you can see I'm in a terrible mood, and I'm not usually so snappy and impatient. Sorry all. i appreciate your feedback. It hasn't usually...

Hey, long time no see. Hope everyone is well. This is just a post for anyone aware of INFJ/ISTP interactions. I'm an INFJ who is married to an ISTP. It's a weird combinationwhich, surprisingly, works for the mostpart. He doesn't worry about anything, a light hearted kind of guy who makes life...

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Is it common for INFJs to internalise stresses and sadnesses? I personally have had some great examples of this in my experience. Currently my husband is working offshore for long periods. We haven't been married long, but bizarrely when we did get married and moved in together, the first time...

Yeh, only in the sense of being shy. If someone engages with me I'm all ears. However some people think if you don't participate in small talk that's antisocial! So I guess it depends on expectations.

Yes... Equally for the people I know and the people I don't. It makes me feel fulfilled, so I guess that's for selfish reasons. It's why I'm training to be a nurse.

Thank you, I thought I was going mad!! That's exactly it though, I feel sad. Makes sense if it's because I'm not doing what I'm good at :). It's ok, I'm starting my nursing placement tomorrow, so I should have PLENTY of interaction for the next while :). But thanks so much for your advice! Kgal...

Hi guys, long time no see.... As usual. Anyway, quick on as I'm currently developing carpal tunnel from touch screen overuse. I am recently married, prior to which I lived with parents. My husband works offshore often, usually four weeks out of eight, but he was given a lot of time off around...