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    Unbalanced friendly relationships where you are being 'helped'

    I’m just in an incompatible living arrangement, clear as day, and I think because we are so different there’s a power struggle over will. I, like many other infj’ s (I’m hoping) unless I’m just whacked myself ?? don’t confuse compromise with sacrifice, or weakness for that matter. Group wise- I...
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    Unbalanced friendly relationships where you are being 'helped'

    OMG. Yes!!! I don’t have an answer to solve this. I have been exerting myself to change the dynamic (and perspective) it’s made me feel very ugly on the inside because I’m acting in ways that go against my nature… but I’ll be damned if I let anyone push me around again. It may not be healthy but...
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    Hiding one's own self to an extent

    Ok. Another post… I know I’m living in an “unsavory” “relationship” I use quotes to reiterate the ambiguity of it. My question for advice- never mind. My advice to others- do not compromise yourself for others! Especially narcissistic asses! Thanks for allowing me to vent.. hope it’s not against...
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    Hiding one's own self to an extent

    The only thing I can think of is that maybe the person “targeted” isn’t liked very well or in high regard with the “perpetrator? I’m not THAT sensitive. Period Right???
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    Hiding one's own self to an extent

    I agree. Games are supposed to be fun, and I know how to play games. I don’t condone playing games with peoples emotions though just to elicit a response- not in a serious manner anyway. I just don’t understand that or why anyone would do that except for “evil”- self gratification, but why at...
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    Thank you I’m still trying to figure it out. Thank you for the welcome though.. it means a lot...

    Thank you I’m still trying to figure it out. Thank you for the welcome though.. it means a lot.. my first connection! :))) ty
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    I just joined, am I doing this right?… am I connected???

    I just joined, am I doing this right?… am I connected???
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    Hiding one's own self to an extent

    I just joined and this is my first post reading… ty?
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