I am an ENFP, the inspirer, who's best match is an INFJ, the protector. According to the traditional analysis: " an ENFP needs to feel that they are living their lives as their true Self, walking in step with what they believe is right. They see meaning in everything, and are on a continuous quest to adapt their lives and values to achieve inner peace. They're constantly aware and somewhat fearful of losing touch with themselves. Since emotional excitement is usually an important part of the ENFP's life, and because they are focused on keeping "centered", the ENFP is usually an intense individual, with highly evolved values. ENFPs take their relationships very seriously, but also approach them with a childlike enthusiasm and energy. They seek and demand authenticity and depth in their personal relationships, and will put forth a lot of effort into making things work out. They are warm, considerate, affirming, nurturing, and highly invested in the health of the relationship. They have excellent interpersonal skills, and are able to inspire and motivate others to be the best that they can be. Energetic and effervescent, the ENFP is sometimes smothering in their enthusiasm, but are generally highly valued for their genuine warmth and high ideals. Most ENFPs will exhibit the following strengths with regards to relationships issues:
* Good communication skills
* Very perceptive about people's thought and motives
* Motivational, inspirational; bring out the best in others
* Warmly affectionate and affirming
* Fun to be with - lively sense of humor, dramatic, energetic, optimistic
* Strive for "win-win" situations
* Driven to meet other's needs
* Usually loyal and dedicated
Animals, especially dogs. Studied philosophy and when the philosophy factory was closed I became a lawyer in order to help those in need. I have a passion for medicine, forensics and psychology. Love the beach, warm weather, spicy food, music. Sometimes write poetry.
- Birthday
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Apr 11, 1960
(Age: 64)
- Biography
- Love animals and children. 1/2 east Indian and 1/2 European (Irish and Finnish). Never found that right match (after all INFJs are only 1% of the population)! Graduated from law school in 1983 and worked as an attorney (military JAG Corps, public defender and private practice) until 2003 when a severe illness caused me to decide that working with liars (I mean other lawyers) was too stressful and that my goal of service to others was no longer being served by my profession. Had toxic parents who were anything but affirming and protective probably why I seek that rock of Gibraltar that will stand by me through it all and appreciate that I will do the same. I rescue animals and raise my sons to be healers that never make anyone's life harder.
- In descending order, which 6 things could you never do without?
- 1. Children
2. My Dogs
3. Peace of mind
4. Self respect
6. Honor
- What would be your epitaph?
- She made everyone's life a little better
- MBTI
- ENFP
- Enneagram
- 2 sx/so/sp
- Occupation
- First career was as an attorney, second will be as