lilgreengal

sigh... I'm sorry...

I bet a healthy, well-developed older INFJ male would be more balanced.

Hmmm, I've never been a player, nor do I prefer to be with one. I wouldn't love those silences when you ask him tough questions, either. I must warn you... INFJ males are very different creatures than we INFJ females. I am unable to date them myself. :/

Ask him straight up. My guess is something in his personal life is complicating his decision making process, and he is hashing it out inside his head. See if you can get him to share what's on his mind with you, and how he views your relationship, as well as where he would like it to go. I hope he recieves you well. I think you are lovely, and am always impressed with your insightful posts. I hope you stay around.

Glad to hear that some of what I said was helpful, even if it's just on the level of being able to relate. Sometimes it's hard to make the right choices for ourselves and be able to move forward and leave all of the negative emotions behind...especially if those situations tend to linger on for a while. I wish you the best of luck and I hope the forum can help you on your path to self awareness and growth

Welcome to the INFJs Forums. :wave: