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This gave me a lot of clarity (even taking notes lol) Thankyou for sharing your insight and wisdom:)

All very good points Ren:)

Looked it up -“Being authentic means that you act in ways that show your true self and how you feel. Rather than showing people only a particular side of yourself, you express your whole self genuinely. That means to succeed in being authentic, you first have to know who your true self actually...

I like this analogy a lot... Thankyou for sharing ^_^

Reaction Formation, do you know why people do this? I wonder if it’s passed trauma or learned behavior I’m curious Hmm... this is very interesting, I’m going to look into the images, I’m not sure if my own intuition does this or comes through as words, or if it’s all a jumble lol. The images...

Who would you be in a fantasy world? Just for pure imaginative fun, and that I am a giant nerd with no shame Some questions to think about! 1. What type of world would you live in? 2. What sort of race or creature would you be? (Elf, Dragon, Alien, ext... maybe even human, you can come up...

Thankyou, and the same goes for you ^_^ We are all our own sort of messed up and mad, we wouldn’t be human otherwise I love the Alice and wonderland quote!

Normal is a silly word, in truth there is none lol we are all unique! Your Ni (introverted intuition) is the culprit for all of that lol, I’ve read it’s like having a sort of link to the subconscious naturally without even trying. I always imagine it as a steady stream going on in the back of my...

I don’t think I’ve ever related to someone as much as this lol, you sound so much like me it’s insane!! This is great advice Thankyou ^_^

Ahh, yeah makes sense.. so maybe don’t have to be so damn bluntly honest either lol... thanks for your input ^_^

Maybe what I’m calling people pleasing is just me blending in too... but I haven't liked it, because I can’t relax and be myself I suppose so, me worrying about the authenticity is probably making me able to be less “authentic” or myself.. so would be unfruitful yeah What does it look like to...

Hmmm.. true. I think expecting others to be 100% truthful is a bit extreme, but when it is a regular habit that you don’t feel like you can trust someone, as you said the lie count, I begin to not feel safe or secure with an individual. But yeah that'd be mostly in an inner circle.. In my...

Good point Daustus, and we are tricky sometimes for even ourselves to get to know. it means so much when someone knows you to the core and not just what your showing them, and then accepts that person. I think every human does need that. Maybe with age and self reflection this can get easier for...

I’m sorry for what your going through, and yes I’ve experienced something likely similar.. Interesting how suffering can propel us into more self growth and love for ourselves and others. Can transform someone, and help you see both your light and dark Lol I’d love to go take a look xD...

Yes, and I think that idea helps me understand others better... and come from a place of understanding and not judgment. Maybe we’re not as different as we feel at times Agreed we have a strong desire and need for it... reading the book of joy at the moment and it talks about how we as humans...