Recent content by Neva

That's true and that's why I'm looking forward to the positive side of the relationship, which is that we're trying our best to make it work and as he asked, I won't force any emotions on him now since he's going through a hard time from the deaths that happened in his family. Hope always...

A lot....we met here and we had a normal relationship, meaning that we met almost everyday at the beginning and then later on about twice a week...we used to run errands together, go to the movies, etc.. Why the question-how many times we've met in person? You thought this is an internet...

I think Sriracha was going through the same thing and reading her post made me realize how much hard it is for him and as she said, her feelings didn't change towards her husban, but it must have taken a lot of time after they got married for her to get through her mother's loss. I wish I could...

Yes :) and he says that everything will be ok, it's just a matter of time...what makes me afraid is when he says things like I'm emotionally unstable right now for this relationship or for marriage, so I freak out and he calms me down with saying I want to feel better from what's happening to...

Sharing your partner with other people???

Yes, that's what he's been telling me lately, he told me I'm emotionally unstable and I honestly get hurt of that sometimes, but I understand it's very hard on him as he lost 4 members of his family...he even tried to joke with me when I found out about his uncle, he told me, did you see what's...

Thanks Anna :) Yes, I do feel comfortable and I do trust him, when I'm feeling down like this and I sometimes cry on the phone, he calms me down and tells me I'm here don't worry everything is going to be ok, it's just a matter of time, it's us that have to have patience, etc etc stuff like that...

Well, I haven't been here in a loooooooong while, but thought to post this thread about what's written in the Title...INFJs and Long Distance relationships. I think I need help with it and wanted to know what other INFJs think about it. Here it is :) Well, I've met a person who I love very...

This is ALL True, if he's doing it to someone then he could be moving on to someone even better if he finds her. About the most recent post, yes, one of my friends said the same exact thing, I'm using him. The problem is, I was harsh enough to tell him I don't have feelings for him face to...

you're right....It's so true...I don't know why I felt that, I guess it's because it's my first relationship even though it wasn't really a relationship. I was so happy that I gave him a chance because I'm always afraid to love someone because I always fear the feeling of getting hurt. But...

Well, I don't know if there has been a thread regarding this before or not, but I've been in a relationship recently & it was pretty serious I guess. The person who cared for me proposed only after knowing him for a couple of months, which I thought was insane, but went with the flow even...

First of all, GREAT topic!! I logged in today thinking to start a topic like this one and when I found this one...I felt like it spoke my mind. Second of all, Raccoon Love read & said everything on my mind. I'm having trouble with this "niceness" of just being myself and it's bothering me...

That's so true! For me, it all starts with lying. If someone lied to me, then that's the end of it. That's because I believe if someone could lie to someone who they say they care about, then they could cheat and do much more worse things to that person. Trust is a HUGE deal for INFJs I...