Hi. I was googling stories about being catfished and I stumbled across ur story. Something like this has just recently happened to me. It just ended July 31st of this year because the persons "supposed food friend" sends me a message saying my love had died during his surgery to have his brain tumor removed. He told me about his diagnosis for a brain tumor a year ago but there were a lot of inconsistencies with his story and I never questioned it until a few days after his supposed death because I was grieving so hard. But we were together off and on for almost three years and I never once saw him on cam. He had been through a lot of things and I didn't wanna push and he lived in Brazil with his parents so he never had privacy to cam with me he said. We did talk by voice a lot but that's it. But I don't know if he really died or not but Things seem odd and my friends all thought he wasn't who he said he was from the beginning. But either way I am hurt because of the loss of him in my life so it's been hard. I never ever do online relationships and this was my first so I am now very cold and will never do one again. I opened up to him and gave my heart and told him things I never told anyone else. I feel that at first he never intended for things to get serious between us since we were both just looking for friendship but I think they got deep and serious really fast and by then he couldn't get out of it something like what ur catfisher said to u. And we broke up a lot and got back together. it's been difficult