ODyssey

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I added you because I know you can make a difference.. I can make difference to everyone, too. And I think, we should have this conversations, about experiences of being an INFJ with each other - whether via group messaging or anything in a friendly way.

Let's be friends [we are now friends right?]. Do you love 'group messaging' or 'one on one conversation'? If we all gather together (me,you,missjayjay,someone,everyone..etc.) wouldn't it be so nice? Which do you prefer?

Everyone is Unique. You also have your own beautiful way.

Interests... How'bout you? Haha probably everything... If it is art...

☺ Actually, I don't get the point of what I said. Haha

Because, I don't want to.

Because the only thinɡ I see is the past and the future - spiritually.

I'm blind of physical world.

Hello there! Ms. ODyssey. I like your quotations. You only have 2 friends so I would like to be your friend to make it three

The message I have is not uplifting or hopeful. I wonder if it has any value. I often debate relaying my story sometimes. When I do its normally to achieve more understanding of myself to others.

I see.
yeah, I can understand that.
I obsessed over those same things when I was stuck in that Ni-Ti loop xD.
I realized that my devotionals were not actually devotional and that is what got me out of the loop. It was the thing that picked out the last straw.

What got me out of the Ni-Ti loop was a series of pretty inspirational sermons, a chain of emails between this one valedictorian who gave this REALLY inspirational speech (I am 95% sure that he is an INFJ lol and if you want the speech, I can link it.), studying and self reflections (that sometimes helped, sometimes made it worse, but every time, I would arrive at a deep conclusion), prayer, and yeah.
Don't worry too much about getting out of an Ni-Ti loop though. They help us mature. A lot. I would tell you more things, but sometimes, the best way to help somebody is just to allow them to have their own time to reflect and stuff. Albert Einstein once said that, "I live in that solitude which is painful in youth, but delicious in the years of maturity."
here is another quote: Have no regrets, as everything that occurred in the past has led you to the present. And often times, a story that is full of mishaps is more powerful than a story full of perfection.
God will forgive you. And in your weakness he will reveal the strengths that you shall receive.
So yeah, be patient with all of this. God is with you and you shall be in my prayers.
If want to share your Ni-Ti loop thoughts with me, you may.
If you don't want to, that's fine too.
And if you want me to share more of my reflections with you, don't be afraid to ask.
Always a pleasure to be involved in a deep conversation.

the relationship thing?
Oh, it plagued me for like a year or so. I guess it kind of ended like this month lol.
Ni-Ti loops... well... they can be both harmful and helpful.
They can allow you to arrive at deep conclusions when you analyze a certain event. However, Ni-Ti loops over sad things or a bad event or a fear of things that are going to happen (often they are triggered by sinning, or idk, a certain pain that you have? etc. They can be triggered by almost anything).
If you want to end a Ni-Ti loop, open yourself up (don't just talk with anybody. I posted the conclusions of my reflections on social media). That is what I did, and it helped me, as I didn't feel trapped when I did. I could share my thoughts, and my fears were calmed down by some of the people with whom I talked to.
Now be careful to who you talk to, as sometimes, when I talked to people, and the words that they said to me were more harmful than helpful. Try to find someone who can provide you with good and deep insights into the things that you are worried about, analyzing, or are flustered about. Just remember that all relationships start with a hi and grow with acts of kindness and compassion. Getting out of a tertiary function loop can take a lot of time, so be patient and make (or find) a friend who you can talk to about deep things and make (or find) a friend who is willing to relate to you in a deep and harmonious way. We can all relate to each other as we are all people, and the fact that we were all made so similarly and the fact that we are all so ordinary is one of our greatest gifts, as it makes it so that we can all relate. just some people are more willing to relate to other people (I respect such people. It takes humility to go and talk to someone who is different than you are). So find someone who is willing to relate to you. Talk with them about the things that are going on in life. Eventually, you will get out of the Ni-Ti loop as there is always light at the end of a tunnel.

Low self esteem can manifest itself at any age. One can overcome it, then it can grab you by the ankle later in years. It is noble to help edify those weakened by things we don't readily see.

Absolutely adore your avatar ODyssey.... Hope you are having a fantastic weekend.

Some folk have potential, yet other things they feel they must accomplish first.