Recent content by RestlessJohn

@John K ., a deep, heartfelt thank you. You have opened up so much of a world I never knew existed until a few months ago. You know, I used to look at my wife before my awakening and think I was with such a strong, together soul. When she opened up and told me about her excessive thinking and...

Thank you for such a thoughtful reply—I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your perspective. My wife excitedly told me about five years ago that she was an INFJ, but at the time, I took little notice. Looking back now, I can see how much it meant to her to share that with me. Since my...

Thank you for your perspective—I really appreciate it. I think you're spot on about both of us having deep emotional pain that keeps getting triggered in different ways. I also find the idea that couples only have 'one fight' with different triggers really interesting. If I had to guess, I'd say...

Hey everyone, I’d love some insight from INFJs about something I’m struggling with. My wife is an INFJ, and we’ve been together for 15 years, but over the last 7+ years, we’ve both been emotionally checked out. We’ve stayed together largely for our children, but I recently had a very sudden...