I was thinking about this the other day. Does criticism stem from insecurity?
It seems people are only capable of providing criticism when they are aware of the benefits/faults, within that realm. Only an artist can provide proper criticism for another person's art, because they are aware of the pitfalls which they have experienced first-hand and are conscious of not repeating those same mistakes again. In this vein, when someone criticizes another person's behavior, especially social behavior, doesn't it imply that they are quietly suppressing the behavior within themselves, or at least, trying to?
So for example, if someone tells you to "get a life", doesn't it also imply that they are painfully aware of their ability (or lack thereof) to get a life? I've been told many times by a person that I'm not socially adequate, and that I need to work on my mannerisms in order to be presentable in public - does it imply that that person is also insecure about his ability to be socially adequate?
Just a thought. What do you guys think?
It seems people are only capable of providing criticism when they are aware of the benefits/faults, within that realm. Only an artist can provide proper criticism for another person's art, because they are aware of the pitfalls which they have experienced first-hand and are conscious of not repeating those same mistakes again. In this vein, when someone criticizes another person's behavior, especially social behavior, doesn't it imply that they are quietly suppressing the behavior within themselves, or at least, trying to?
So for example, if someone tells you to "get a life", doesn't it also imply that they are painfully aware of their ability (or lack thereof) to get a life? I've been told many times by a person that I'm not socially adequate, and that I need to work on my mannerisms in order to be presentable in public - does it imply that that person is also insecure about his ability to be socially adequate?
Just a thought. What do you guys think?