Everything you do affects everyone else, though.
That's where community is able to determine the ways that aren't affecting others in a bad way
What eventhorizon is describing is 'libertarianism' which is the belief that people should be able to do what they want to do as long as they aren't hurting anyone else
The corporate media does not like this idea because the corporate agenda is to get everyone dependent on the corporations for everything from food, water, fuel, clothes, shelter etc etc
So the corporate media through repetition has got everyone to think that there is only one kind of libertarian which is the capitalist libertarian. These are the capitalists who believe in small government.
However there are also socialist libertarians
The corporations are not nearly as scared of capitalist libertarians as they are of socialist libertarians because they have already subverted capitalism from small government to big government so they know they could do it again
What they are really afraid of is the other type of libertarian which is why they never mention it!
Because their media only ever uses the word 'libertarian' to mean small government capitalists, most people now seem to think that is what the word means
I am not a capitalist by nature but bizarrely i find myself agreeing with libertarian capitalists over many things but not everything. So for example, like them, i think people should be able to smoke a joint if they want or be gay or worship whatever god they want but unlike them i don't think we should live in a society orientated around money and the pursuit of profit
So some self declared libertarian businesses move their operations abroad so that they are not polluting US soil or exploiting US workers but that is not libertarianism because they are still hurting others, they are just doing it somewhere else
So there has to be a level of communication to avoid the effect you describe where our actions affect others. When we had smaller communities that was easily done by word of mouth but now we have bigger communities we can use technology for example the internet which is a giant communications network
So the trick here is to ensure individual freedoms (that people are not being coerced into doing things they don;t want to do) whilst ensuring that they are acting responsbily towards the rest of the global community and that is going to require communication
It can be done however and the sooner people turn their minds to that way of thinking the sooner we can come up with innovative solutions and systems
The alternative of a nanny state being imposed on us through the lazy attitude of handing over power and responsibility to a handful of powerful people will not work out well for us.....they will micro-manage us...they will control EVERY aspect of our life and it is going to be stiffling to the extreme
This is where the term 'totalitarianism' comes from....it means when the powerful have total control over every aspect of your life
Technology is a double edged sword, it can be used for good or ill. If we go down the path i suggest of decentralising power down to the people, who then all work together, technology can be used to benefit everyone sustainably; if we go down the other route of centralising power away from the people into the hands of a few then technology will be used to control us and there are already ample examples of this process being underway
We as a species are at a cross-roads at the moment....this is a key time in our history. It is absolutely vital that we choose the right path at this point and to make that decision sensibly we should not blindly follow what the authorities tell us to do