I found my way within the Catholic community. Yes, yes, I know it all seems horribly restrictive and legalistic but I think that is more of the perception from the perimeter than what it is really all about. Try this on...and no, I am
not trying to convince anyone to convert. Trust me, my path is based on my own personal experiences and there's no way I would, or could, overlay that on somebody else.
The Catholic experience really does stretch back quite actively to the Apostolic times and as a community we hold all that diverse and rich experience in balance all the way up to today. Catholics are among the pack-rats of Christendom...we tend to keep stuff. This offers vast resources of wisdom and experience that I feel is the rightful heritage of all Christian people. It is even a superb platform for understanding the meaning of Scripture and how these developed within the community.
For me this vast diversity of experience (good and bad) and wisdom, once understood, allows a stupendous platform for freedom and personal liberty. It's like having a map....you know where the journey is taking you, you know others have found their way, you even know where the chasms and other hazards are. Once one has the basic lay of the land, one can launch out one's self without fear of winding up totally lost. The way is there, yes, but if I want to take this route, that route, go rafting, climb that hill, stop and have a picnic....it's all good!!
Also, Catholics do have codes and dogmas, true, but these are there mainly for defining and perpetuating essential truths over time. That is not all there is...in fact, these are in many ways semi-peripheral (although definitely meaningful). If you want to really understand the Catholic heart, listen to the Mass and to other common prayers of the community. Ponder the creeds. These are the definers, but even these are only part of the picture. The ultimate truth we thrive on is this: the journey to God, and this through Christ who creates possibilities we could not create for ourselves. Why? Because in the end the entire spiritual journey is about connection and a partnership, human with divine. It was this way in the story of the Garden, and it is still essentially this way now. One has to set aside ego-centricity that wants to do it all ourselves, and allow/invite this connection to be. We say our "yes". The work of the Spirit helps this happen within us each and every day. I cannot begin to describe the heritage and experience that exists around all this throughout time...it really transcends all boundaries and boggles the mind. It is a very rich world to work within. I like having some room in which to spread out!
Well, I don't want to go on too much here....I just wanted to present this as a spiritual path and to show it in this light rather than a cartoon version we are commonly presented with. There is something under the surface here, a great mystery of great beauty, and it is this that provides the best sense of an actual approach to spirituality. I've been actively engaged in all this for the past 40 years and it continues to open up before me as if I've barely even started.
I do very much respect other approaches...that is part of the diversity. But there is something very weightly and conspicuous in this Christ-thing that ought not to be overlooked. Oh, one last thing....I do not necessarily understand or agree with each and every thing that people in my church articulate. Much of this is also secondary. It is a family...and you know how families are.