Mum- ESFJ. She passed away when i was 19 so i dont know how she would describe me now. But back then- smart, know it all, rebellious, arguementative, reckless, too quiet, too loud, creative, bad fashion sense, doesnt take enough care of appearance, private, aloof, insolent, secretive, clumsy, warm, affectionate, playful, great cook, druggie, slut (I was not those last two at all!), kind, compassionte, helpful, clean, reliable, responsible, magical, psychic, very strange, stubborn, strong willed, competent, cabable, independant, rude and loving.
Dad- INFP- I think he would say- intelligent, creative, argumentative, loud, rude, principled, idealistic, compassionate, artistic, fixes things, solves problems, emotionally volatile, too angry, reckless, crazy, very sympathetic, responsible, reliable, practical, capabale, independant, psychic, practicing black arts or devil worshiping (I dont!), stubborn, too strong willed, caring, helpful, hard working, affectionate, funny, has everything under control, very strong, intimidating, and goofy.
My parents see what they expect. I dont think they really know me. I dont really feel comfortable with the way they see me but some of it is probably true. Most of it is contradictions. They never encouraged much openess and honesty. I moved out when i was 17 but we did have a close relationship. My dad just prefers to not know a lot of things. I think sometimes they just couldnt understand why i had to be strange and weird all the time. Sometimes they were proud, sometimes they were just mortified.