April
Normal Weirdo :)
- MBTI
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- 296 sx/so
A friend pointed this out to me.
https://www.erikthor.com/2016/10/13/four-infj-subtypes/
I have traits of the first and the third subtypes, but it seems I am the second type - The Shallow Performer. Ive been told I resemble ENFJ/ENFP in all my FE glory. But i have grown so much, and have started to realize my goals and pursue them! So yay! Maybe I can move into being the first subtype someone down the road...
I do try way too hard to be liked, because I have a very deep desire to be loved by certain people in my life (online and IRL) in return for the depth of love I feel for them. If you are one of those people, trust me, at one point or another, I will come on pretty strong with my FE and tell you exactly how I feel about you. Just ask a few of my closer friends on here, lol. Because the only thing I can do is treat other people how I would want to be treated. Even if they don't... even if they think I am weird or too intense, I still do it, I can't help but to tell people how much they mean to me! If I have a positive thought about them, I will extravert it. If I have a negative thought about them, I might sugar coat it, or if angry I may not, but if they truly matter to me, I will address it to them. I still have their best interests at heart. I may take up for myself if they have offended me, but I never stay mad long and I always make up for it!
My love is unconditional. There's nothing you can do or say to remove it once it's there. Trying to do so will only end in my heartbreak, which would cause me to pester you more until I have closure.
If you're lucky (or unlucky hehe) enough, you'll get to know what I am taking about!
Anyway, after that rabbit trail about me, myself, and I... :/ ..... what do you think about this article and do you relate to any of it?
https://www.erikthor.com/2016/10/13/four-infj-subtypes/
I have traits of the first and the third subtypes, but it seems I am the second type - The Shallow Performer. Ive been told I resemble ENFJ/ENFP in all my FE glory. But i have grown so much, and have started to realize my goals and pursue them! So yay! Maybe I can move into being the first subtype someone down the road...
I do try way too hard to be liked, because I have a very deep desire to be loved by certain people in my life (online and IRL) in return for the depth of love I feel for them. If you are one of those people, trust me, at one point or another, I will come on pretty strong with my FE and tell you exactly how I feel about you. Just ask a few of my closer friends on here, lol. Because the only thing I can do is treat other people how I would want to be treated. Even if they don't... even if they think I am weird or too intense, I still do it, I can't help but to tell people how much they mean to me! If I have a positive thought about them, I will extravert it. If I have a negative thought about them, I might sugar coat it, or if angry I may not, but if they truly matter to me, I will address it to them. I still have their best interests at heart. I may take up for myself if they have offended me, but I never stay mad long and I always make up for it!
My love is unconditional. There's nothing you can do or say to remove it once it's there. Trying to do so will only end in my heartbreak, which would cause me to pester you more until I have closure.

If you're lucky (or unlucky hehe) enough, you'll get to know what I am taking about!
Anyway, after that rabbit trail about me, myself, and I... :/ ..... what do you think about this article and do you relate to any of it?