Watching from aside, both mom's reaction is same but second mom is aware and lets go of her fears.
So practise letting go all of your fears and judgment.
Good luck!
Fears and judgment, hmm. And I guess also attachment?
I admit I can get heated about certain things (though I am working on that too), and the apathy that is rampant around the world but especially within the US is beginning to die out IMO.
Not being a gererationalist…because I always get accused of blaming this group or that…I truly believe that as the Baby Boomers age and begin to lose office to younger voices that there will be some serious change.
That sounds hard. As someone who participates in internet debate for a while, I have been exposed to the 'why do you always make everything a problem?' statement.
And yes, 'blaming the world (but not yourself)' kind of accusation.
I would imagine things to be the same, if not worse, for you. How are you faring?
And yes, there will be some serious change, for better of worse.
My Son is going to face many difficulties and we have discussed some of them, but he is 12 so I limit what I say, but I see a change in the overall thinking…those who are in college now, or just graduated, or are just about to graduate HS have been some of the most open-minded children to come along so far as I can see.
But then again, I live in a region that is more progressive than some.
Glad to hear that, and I do wish your son the best.
It seems that as much as youths these days are
What are the difficulties you have discussed, if I may ask?
There is no wrong way to care…the fact that you even care is nice to hear.
My own Dad was very conservative, Republican, and I respected his opinion though we differed on certain subjects.
My Dad cared a lot too…which is something that some in the liberal crowd often accuse conservatives of not doing.
We all just do our best with the hands we are dealt…for some people it is easier for them not to care, to let themselves be apathetic towards something or someone, and it’s our responsibility if we want to try and change that attitude to firstly not judge them harshly that they are that way - IRL circumstances influence so much. But you just keep on trying secondly…even when people say - Why bother?
Set the example.
This is definitely something I need to learn and remember again.
INdeed, for some people it's easier to not care-- and at the same time they must have their own reasons.
They cannot exactly be blamed to not care-- or to refrain from judging.
Personally, what I'm still somewhat upset about is me being judged from caring.
Or when an action or a statement is somehow deemed or judged as violent or extremist-- just because it falls solely on one side of a particular debate.
I’m human and I get overly passionate about things sometimes I know…but I would rather be that way, than to give in to apathy.
I will never stop caring about issues I find important…sometimes I feel like Sisyphus…and sometimes I purposefully stay away from things….IDK, but it’s definitely an INFJ thing.
Hahahahha yeah, seems like it's an INFJ thing. :|