Jana
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- MBTI
- infj
It is my view, feel free to tell me I am wrong or right. I am just at specific, overanalyzing point of my life
First two functions are always E - I. I think that Ni and Fe are very I and very E, so their work can make us rather messy from time to time. Because, Ni is mostly oriented in our inner world. It is very abstract and usually plays with untouchable matters. Anybody with Ni as first function can say how one can lost in it. I can be totally unaware of outer world when I am Ni-mod. On the other side, Fe is all about others and people are the most concrete "objects" in outer world. Fe can force us to lose in others.
How it is with me, I wonder do some of you feel same?
So, my Ni makes me rather closed. I need to make sense from myself, I want to explain myself what I feel or do. I need to interprate almost everything I see or experience. One of my worst fears is losing privacy or losing my own space. As regular book INFJ I don't have many close friends, but I have rather wide circle of people I know.y
On the other side, my Fe forces me to be nice to people. usually most people, I feel good when I make someone to feel good. But, I feel worn out after being in Fe mod for long time. Mostly when I say too much from my inner world (feeling, fears etc.).
Here is the thing - being open to people is way of making connection, but actually I usually feel bad when I say something private about myself.
And it confuses me. I usually need time to make friends with someone, but sometimes, very rare, I meet new person and, without much knowledge about that person, I just go for them. Very deeply. It is not like usual me, but it feels good. And in case like that I could be totally open and I don't feel bad.
First two functions are always E - I. I think that Ni and Fe are very I and very E, so their work can make us rather messy from time to time. Because, Ni is mostly oriented in our inner world. It is very abstract and usually plays with untouchable matters. Anybody with Ni as first function can say how one can lost in it. I can be totally unaware of outer world when I am Ni-mod. On the other side, Fe is all about others and people are the most concrete "objects" in outer world. Fe can force us to lose in others.
How it is with me, I wonder do some of you feel same?
So, my Ni makes me rather closed. I need to make sense from myself, I want to explain myself what I feel or do. I need to interprate almost everything I see or experience. One of my worst fears is losing privacy or losing my own space. As regular book INFJ I don't have many close friends, but I have rather wide circle of people I know.y
On the other side, my Fe forces me to be nice to people. usually most people, I feel good when I make someone to feel good. But, I feel worn out after being in Fe mod for long time. Mostly when I say too much from my inner world (feeling, fears etc.).
Here is the thing - being open to people is way of making connection, but actually I usually feel bad when I say something private about myself.
And it confuses me. I usually need time to make friends with someone, but sometimes, very rare, I meet new person and, without much knowledge about that person, I just go for them. Very deeply. It is not like usual me, but it feels good. And in case like that I could be totally open and I don't feel bad.