hehe, I don't really think I'm the expert in warmth and gendle approaches. Not in real life that is ;-). I'm a bit the same as you when I'm annoyed by something. And I'm also annoyed by the "do you do this" treads where the OP NEVER gives her own opinion or show at least a fragment of her personality, the one that is hidden behind all the reason and logic. You really shaked her, she deleted two messages! And I Don't think it that is so bad, while and then
. Your opinion was great and I agreed completely! x