yea, i have custody issues of mine own. which is why my 2 ex-wives both have the kids. i seen my oldest 2 (from 1st ex) this past February, just overnight before i moved about 1,000 miles away. my youngest (from 2nd ex), i haven't seen since she was 3 in January 2006... now she's 7 and i don't even know what she looks like...
not getting to see your kids suck, so i try to tell everyone to spend as much time with your kids as possible. cause one day, they could be gone.
now, its just me and i just try to take it one day at a time.