Going back to what you said about the people you resonate with: yes, it is a joy when it happens, though it's rare. I usually have trouble with, when I do manage to meet someone with sound mind to follow mine, doing too much listening. I don't like interrupting people; that's why I run the risk of being used as a doormat. I just sit back and laugh to myself at how much that person likes the sound of their own voice. Usually, it's Ti-style conversation that's easier for me to keep up with because it's, well, very piece-by-piece. I pause a lot when I talk because I value precision, so I constantly need to retrieve the right word or symbol for desired effect.