Nela

HI!!!

how have you been?

EDIT: I just saww your mood on Moods Today...you can talk to me...

I read your post in the Mood of the day thread. Just wondering what happened? I know it's nosey, you can tell me to fuck off if you like!

hmm i sent a message and it didnt come up,were a very laid back people but the recession is taking its toll, I'm unemployed teacher as they cut the education bill and now we have one of the biggest student to teacher ratio's in Europe, ah feeling things is good, for the world to work we need all types of personalities, the waiting game for jobs sucks!

You managed to make it sound interesting, well done! LOL, I'm sure if I was stuck in a cave with ancient hieroglyphics (had to google that) scrawled on the wall, your degree in nazi beating, tomb raiding archaeology would save me! That's pretty useful!

I'm actually starting to come round to monkeys. I know, I know! It's crazy! I mean, what am I thinking? After what they did to me, after what they... they took away from me... I just- I can't keep hating them. Having said that those jumping ones are fucking irritating!

You are very welcome sweetie. And I am glad that I could give you some hope. You are right that you never know what might happen, and I will hope with you that in this case it all works out for the best. Good luck darling and if you ever need an ear, shoulder, or friend.... I will be here.

I remember when I told people I wanted to make films- christ above did I get shit for that! It took at LONG time to convince others (and myself, funnily enough!) that I could do it. The truth is, I knew I could do it. That's sound arrogant but it was just interstellar, super galactic level Ni, I think! And bitter teen angst, I suppose. I wanted to rebel! In fact it was probably an extension of the trademark INFJ alienation and loneliness. Doing a career that no one else does was kind like affirmation of who I was.

But anyway, whatever you decide to do, I hope you make the right decision for yourself- and I'm sure you will!

You still haven't answered one question though: What was the initial interest in Archaeology? I'm very interested!

Hi Nela, thanks for the friend request Glad u sent it as I have enjoyed yr supportive posts- Good to be part of such a wonderful group!!

I can't say I've ever been in that situation because I've always known what I've wanted to do but it must be quite disillusioning, especially after you invested time into a subject, to not not get any fulfilment out of it. I say, if you feel like this now, I guess you've got nothing to lose by seeking out an old flame of interest. I mean, if you're a creative person (you obviously are if you considered art school) then you should feel right at home when you come across the creative outlet that you find that gives you what you need. Your an INFJ and you're not finding what you need in something, I know how that feels at least!

Just sayin, if you have a voice telling you to pursue something then no one can fault you for going after it. Use the force/intuition! Heh, listen to me trying to give advice, that's a whole bag of "wtf?". I think it's cus I've been forced to swallow a lot of harsh but true advice very recently, I feel like giving some out to balance me self. Hope you don't mind! It probably sounds like shit, but it's well meaning, honest!

Your even making me use monkeys- I never use monkeys!

It's NOT like in the movies? Ugh! Well that's rubbish then, isn't it!? LOL But seriously, what made you want to get into that? I assume you studied for a degree, what are you doing now? Forgive me for forever picturing you in brown boots, shorts and a tank top.

Actually I decided not to make that thread, never mind!

Oh wow, thanks a lot! Yeah I'm still feeling positive, I've got a lot to report in a thread tomorrow! Your an archaeologist aren't you? THAT is cool!

Thank YOU for considering me. Have a nice day!

Not quite yet! It still sounds like I'm playing it from the wrong end! :) Jamming with this guy would be so fun: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jNe5JhdBTG0

How are you going at it? Have you managed to tame the beast yet??

89% F? says thats tough on you, I struggle with 55% F, but I think my perfectionism is my biggest enemy, trying to become easier on myself and others, did you see the film 'In Bruges' it was a bit of a dark comedy but I liked it, it didnt depict small belgian villages too great, but I reckon they can be good

well I cant remember the last time I did, but it does happen but not often! ah sure I thought my feeling was high til I came to this site, quite even 55% F,45%T so i'm logical at times, ah don't judge me, im generally quite the animal lover! doing some research on the oll ENFP-INFJ friendships, results so far are not encouraging so think im in the wrong place!

Thanks for the accept

heyyy! haha your monkeys always make me happy! thx but yeah...loneliness is gone...for now anyways
was having an amazing day...till people had to ruin it for me..ugh!
glad to hear your oright (the last time we spoke anyways, you still good? lol)

Yeah I kill spiders in cases of I cant capture them alive, I hate handling them, yeah I'm sympathetic to a point I suppose, your a better person than I, Henin rules I miss her playing, take it your feeling function would be quite high?

really? well done wish i could speak a foreign language like that! do you actually save drowning insects from pools? I use to, but now not so much, not the biggest insect fan I try and avoid killing them if possible, love nature though, Being Belgian are you a Justine Henin fan

old news,may I ask what country your actually from? I'm thinking English is definitely your first language

theres alot to be said about sunny weather! try and get to spain!!