Recent content by Nevermore

First point.... That forum is rife with self righteous assholes. Sorry but it's true. They might be INTJ there but a lot of them are just pricks plain and simple. Second point.... Our inability to create a rapport with someone based on feeling function is what makes us come across as...

My boyfriend is stunning and he literally makes me melt each and every time we meet. I am not sure it's just the outside though, if his insides were vile I wouldn't be with him. He is the perfection of all that I have dreamt of, but I am not so certain that most people find him as desirable as I...

Does it matter what causes you focus on something that feels good? Personally I think everyone is in love with being in love. I've never met anyone that said 'oh hell, I hate being in love. I just don't want to feel good'. The only thing that makes people say 'I am in lover with him\her' is that...

I would not say women are stupid but a fair few of them engage in stupid behaviour. The worst of women in general is a rampant insecurity which leads them to degrade and put down others in order to feel better about themselves. Personally I have less trust in the female gender in general because...

Really? Because you're sleeping with someone who's not even dating you. I must have missed that chapter in the book...*confused*. I'm not a rules girl btw, I do believe in equal and reciprocal interest and effort in relationships and dating. Which is why your situation seems problematic to my...

I don't like to dash people's hopes but in this case I really feel you are on the losing end of this stick. The problem is that he has exactly what he wants out of the relationship and doesn't have to give you anything to get it. There's no incentive for him to be a proper relationship with you...

It's extremely clear here that the OP is a T type. I couldn't even follow the thought train....lol! I'm a T type with F & T nearly evenly balanced. But I would say that 99% of time I do not make decisions based on how either I feel about it or how someone else might feel about it. Why? Because I...

All of the above. I simply stop hanging out with that person. Or if they've really pissed me off I will make an appointment with them and then find something else to do at the appropriate time without bothering to let them know. Of course all of that relies on me not caring if I ever hear from...

Because NF\NT is an awesome pairing. To meet someone who is so completely like you and yet so different is a delightful experience. It's a huge drawcard especially for introverted types who don't come across someone from their own planet very often. NF & NT aren't the same planet but they feel...

You could say that. I've never been able to have casual sex and I've never partnered with anyone whom I didn't see as a potential life partner. Therefore when I do enter a relationship I do it mind, heart and soul and hold nothing back. If the other person does not reciprocate on the same level...

Here's an INTJ take on the situation (one who's got an INFJ partner). You will probably get frustrated by the apparent lack of movement in a forward direction because although we also are... 1. In it for the long haul 2. Cautious and picky about who we end up with We also tend to have a...

I think all this article shows is the idiocy of single women. Quite possibly what this study really reveals is why those women are actually single. What prize are you really winning if you manage to seduce a man away from his partner? Just someone who's fickle and easily removed from his...

The 'cold' reputation is just other people's misunderstanding of the NT personality. We are not unfeeling, in fact our feelings are usually so intense we can fear unleashing them. We just don't outwardly emote as others do. I would move the stars for someone I love and in the past I've...

I can see where you are coming from, my comment about being 'out' at any moment was more about the perception of non-commiting rather than the actual reality of what might be going on. I'm extremely frustrated with my INFJ at the moment because he is coming off all wishy washy and non-committal...

This why INTJ females dump INFJ males. You are J personalities like us but take so damn long to make up your minds. Vascillation and non-commitment are just anathema to us mostly because its annoying. Why bother investing my emotions and experiencing this rollercoaster if you might just 'out' at...