For if you wish to mature and grow as a person, then you must be willing to deal with other people, in which case you must be prepared to deal with that which we have little knowledge of to begin with
He's kind of touchy feely but as an ISTP I think he has that pretty under control. He knows that I'm not like that so he lessens his use of it in my presence. I'm very confused by emotion, mine own and other people's. His ability to comprehend it and explain it to me logically is very helpful.
The boy I like is an S type but usually I don't get along with them. It's actually quite strange. My Fe and Fi are both underdeveloped a significant amount. He's good at explaining emotions to me because he understands that sort of thing. So I think that's why I overlook the whole S thing.
Spent some time in Kansas City as a child and have some fond memories. Don't know much about the rest of the state. I'm picturing flat and dusty. Think I got that image from the Wizard of Oz. Is it pretty where you are?