:tongue: Get on chat!
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I.. I think so. :shocked: Are you? Haha.
Oh no.. we really need to do something about these nightly conversations. Lol. So down to business now then?
Like, directly down to business? For some reason, it feels too early in the evening to go on chat, we're not even past midnight! Lol.
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Why don't you fucking marry it then! *Slams door*
Hello handsome.
I'll be back soon: :hungry: I'm sorry! I always come online at the worst times.
Well, after all it's not the past, but only the future that matters.
But I can see what you mean with it affecting you.
I mean about the fact that it will change how people see you.
Well but, if you don't really care about how they see you, than it's not really an issue right?
And yeah in fact, I do know what you mean.
Do you really think that people see you that differently from who you really are? I'd think.. those that matter see you for who you are. No? And if it really is the case, that people see you that differently, then I guess it wouldn't hurt if you show them a little more of the real side of you. Because, well you are amazing, in every way.
Nah, it's not about being bitter. It's just the way you experienced things. I recognize a lot from it. Especially with my own family. It's just frustrating because sometimes.. I just wanted to talk to/bond with these people, but if it doesn't work, it only makes things worse.
In what way do you think it will change how people see you?
Yeah, but after years of feeling like a life form from outer space, it feels surreal!
Totally understand what you mean with the fighting thing. I have certain people in my life (my mother being one of them) with whom at one point I just stopped communicating -about these things that are important to me, but are (apparently) ununderstandable. Lol. More because I had to than because I wanted to. Sometimes this way it's just easier (and better for everyone) than having to defend yourself all the time, without it getting you anywhere.
Awesome. That's it, exactly. I was replying to this, but I realised I was kinda saying the exact same thing, in other words. You know, still.. this is really strange. Sometimes it just strikes me. Those are things no one ever seems to understand (or not really anyway), and with you it's like.. I don't know, you express the exact same things that are going on in my head.
Yeah but anyway, looking unapproachable, conscious or unconscious, is a skill I mastered pretty well. Lol.
Haha. I'll try not to. Just don't look too scary.
Just joking.
Hm but you know, I do to, kind of! Not scary I think though but.. Anyway it's also partly conscious. It keeps me from getting into unwanted social interaction. Lol.
Haha, yeah. Actually that's a quite complicated task. Especially when you're only half awake!
I probably do it all the time, unconsciously. Don't they say that INFJs usually aren't aware of how they come across? I'm one of those.
I bet they look twice as nice when you're preparing breakfast with them. Lol.
Me? Never! I do have a couple of other weird faces though. -
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