Heart centered living... Thank you for reminding me of the reason why I'm here. Sometimes I lose perspective and feel useless. Today you were an anchor for me....and I appreciate it.
Heya No worries at all, thank you for writing... I like your honest thoughts, hopefully I clicked on the right thing so it tells me when you write a new one now
Thanks, I love reading your blog, and yeah, writing really does help me to just get the anxiety, confusion, negative feelings out of my head. Hopefully I can leave it there, lol.
Ahh...now I see what you're saying. Yes. I agree with how it seems from some people. I suppose it's a couple of things. One - they have no frame of reference when they are responding. They don't really know how it feels or the thoughts that accompany those emotions. The other thing is - even though they DO have the frame of reference and they have experienced similar thoughts/emotions - they don't open the walls around their heart and speak while feeling those feelings in them. That's what I do. When I respond (most of the time) I'm feeling the fear/pain/love of which I speak. I deal with my own shit at the same time I'm trying to talk about theirs. It's difficult at times - but I find it healing for me.
The un -moderated confessional was put out there so people could vent without fear of being reprimanded. The author thought if a bunch of feelers who normally avoid confrontation were allowed to let out their pent up emotions/feelings/thoughts then they wouldn't be so frustrated. The problem is - if you're anonymous - who is going to validate you? Spewing hateful words where no one can respond to you is just putting more hate emotions out there in the universe - sucking up energy - and causing hurt. You can see the effects in the forum.