honestly, i don't 'feel' 34 at all whatever that means. i dont have kids --i still feel 25. ive been told i look 25. i cant believe how fast the time flew by, subway. just the other day i was a smokin hot 22 year old --goddam i was cute :::sigh::: but aside from a few more lines on my face and a more womanly figure, i feel the same. actually, now im better able to ask for what i want because i know what i want when i want it and im not too shy to speak up.