Trifoilum

Hi Thank you

maybe, maybe not. If you mean always there, no matter what, then yes, and if that's an essential criteria for you in friendship, then a flaky friendship won't work for you. If you mean, there when you need me if you call and here to receive you whenever you're ready to come back, then flaky won't be a problem.

I would describe you as angry.

LOL

I think it works best when everyone understands there's a free pass for coming and going and being flaky.

No I mean, I understand what you're saying. But, ummm. I mean, in "scientific terms" I look for validation and security from other people. So its hard when I say I'm INFJ, and no one else agrees, it can become an identity crisis as you said earlier. Because I need to have an identity, but the one I'm trying to be is fitting with anyone else. At the same time though, I'm very secure in that I AM INFJ, and I'm distressed no one is agreeing with me, and I need the people around me to believe in me, in order for me to be able to believe in myself.


I still don't call it an identity crisis though...

That's fine. Acknowledgment is enough.

You just missed the entire point of that post.

Elucidate?

I am angry, because I accepted my ignorance, I always have. I said "I do not know a lot about mbti/JCF, but I can tell these people have." So I listened to what everyone said, and input it into my value system. But it never fit, there was something under the surface that kept on bugging me, and I couldn't figure it out. I realize now, that what I was showing was true Ni Fe Ti Se (though frankly I'm not sure how Se manifested). I think Se might have been the need to know part of it. (complicated). I found out only later on the main reason people thought I was EXXP, was due to the fact my posts appear "scatterbrained." What annoyed me was this was far from the truth, each post has a very specific purpose to serve, if it doesn't? I don't post it. I also, which you might have been able to tell, went through an experience at school where if I was so frustrated at being an INFJ. I really do wish I was an estp, that is my dream type. To just not care about the consequences, to live in the now, is a dream that I will keep on dreaming.

You may hold your reservations about me, I am not saying I don't want people to think I'm EXXP, after all, ( I do believe you're infj, well I'm pretty sure) I think many many people here are not INFJ. But its like... If you look at my videos, you'll only ever see INFJ if you're unaware of MBTI but for the first time. What people don't realize, is that I'm pass my Fe, I'm now into my Ti, which is a child. It's always been, and I've always been aware of that. So thats why it appears TiFe pairing, and since I have N, people thus fill in the Xx TiFe Xx with Ne. But no, its Ni. And its so clear to me now, all of it. People assumed the reason I was seeing myself as all of these types was due to me connecting the dots with me Ne, but no. It was the fact that I have to take every little piece of information and insert it into my value system, which IS Ni. (Thats why I used the wording the way I did at the beginning of this post).

Anyways, I think I may go edit out that post, even though I'm INFJ, I didn't realize how many people would misinterpret it >.<

The exact opposite, identity realization. I understand now I am the farthest from extraverted, and pretty far from perceiving than at all possible. And I am sick and tired of this forum stating I am, simply because they are unable to view my posts for anything else but what they are. I am an INFJ, I always have been, and always will be. Meanwhile though, I have discovered many many people on this forum are not the types they say they are, which frustrates me not because their ignorant, but because they deny their ignorance.

Thanks!!

Awesome : D

I learned at about 16-17 years and got my license when I was 17. I didn't get to drive on my own until i was 18 though.

Thanks very much for the birthday wishes, Trifoilum! I can always use a little luck. =)

Thank you for the compliment!

Yes, over say 25...looking younger is a good thing. And don't worry I didn't take offense. I was kind of just messing with you!

oooh even better :]

I'll be 20 next month lol...but he does look a little on teh mature side. Where did you discover him?

Thanks

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Aww, thanks c: