Hmm, you are... INTP? My beau is a lead introverted feeler, and he said he would not consider my emotional state over his in the moment, and would stop talking to me for a day or so if I slipped and said that to him. Luckily, my extroverted feeling helps me consider his feelings over mine, for the most part.
Lol, I thought you may have meant it that way. He's an infp. Very sensitive. I would never prefer to be spoken to so harshly, and I severely doubt he would either.