Are we?

[sedna]

a) charismatic/ charming - check

b) leaders - check

c) loners - check

d) intimidating - check

e) likable - I don't know about this

f) despised - check

g) popular

 

[sumone]

a) charismatic/ charming - sometimes
b) leaders - sometimes, I'm at my best in an emergency.
c) loners - yes
d) intimidating - I've heard I can be but I really don't see it
e) likable - people say I am
f) despised - I hope nobody despises me. That would really suck for them.
g) popular - usually happens by accident. When I realise I'm getting popular I withdraw somewhat.
h) a formidable presence