Apart from the grapefruit those are the exact same pictures that I have in mind. I understand also that the point we observe from doesn't exist anywhere but in our imagination - yet we have to assume this position outside of what we know in order to observe the way we do.
You could say that there is no point, because everything that the point was is what the universe is now, and I understand that position. You could also say that this point is an imaginary structure (just like the observational perspective we take to explain it) which we keep in mind in its original form (or rather size) as the actual universe expands around it. This is all I have meant. And because I can imagine both ways of seeing it, I consider it a thing of personal preference. Someone with a scientific background will probably prefer the former perspective, I don't know.
It still is fascinating to expand your mind by creating theories with the hypotheses that scientists come up with. At the moment they are just that, which is what makes this fun - it's a matter of imagination and a little background knowledge in cosmology. Which I mostly don't have, judging by the lecturing I get for the way that I describe what I see in my mind's eye - I don't mean this judgingly, I like being lectured