Now I know that I did. I could have killed myself. But I still think that the category of desperation is relevant. At the time I perceived no other choice.
I think it is stupid to punish people for something that doesn't harm other people. The only exception I can think of is exhibitionists or people who decide that clothes are optional.
I can't imagine the hell it would be to be unable to pursue someone you found attractive. At least we have the opportunity to do so.