Who decides what is normal or abnormal?
I would assume that most men are not aware of exactly how other men are in their sexual relations, only from whatever they may report to each other, and that is likely to be more for show or entertainment, and not necessarily accurate.
As for a woman, for her to be able to ascertain if this is 'normal' in the general male population, she would have to have had an extensive amount of experience with many men, and even if that were the case her samples would be biased by her own preferences as well as the types of men she attracts.
The dynamic between two particular individuals would likely also influence the way sexual relations develop. A man might be the way you describe with one woman but different with another, depending how he feels around her, or the messages that she gives off and her own preferences.
May I gently suggest that perhaps you need to stop categorizing men and making them into people that can be sorted and treated as samples of what is 'normal' or 'abnormal'.
All men are individuals, they all act in their very own individual way, and they all act differently in different circumstances and with different people.
You are doing men, and yourself, a big disfavour by trying to make them into specimens to study, instead of individual human beings who all deserve more than to be arbitrarily thrown into categories.