Do you really think Trump cares? I think they both equally care about their own egos. That's it. I don't know that I can bring myself to vote for Hillary or Trump. I said I'd vote for Hillary if Sanders didn't get the nomination, but I don't think I can do it. I may be one of those who writes in Sanders and then sheds a single tear, knowing I may have pissed my vote away, but at least not my integrity.
One thing to consider is that Trump wants to issue orders for the military to target and kill civilians (terrorist's families) he has said that he is considering nuking the terrorists (where? where are you going to nuke? they don't have a terrorist base. They infiltrate wherever they can. They hide among innocent people using them as shields.) and that he wants to use torture.
The former CIA director even stated that he believed that the military would not follow Trump's orders. I would hope that service men and women would refuse to follow an unlawful order.