Chihiro was too...unsure.
Chihiro became sure. The point to the film was her journey from insecure to self assured. What makes this film such a wonderful example is that it portrays that process for an INFP and for an INFJ.
Chihiro was overwhelmed and never had any trouble expressing it. But, just like an INFP, she kept pushing herself, and eventually she found her real confidence, and came out a very strong person because of it.
Haku was overwhelmed, yet unable to express it. But, just like an INFJ, he stayed on the path without really knowing why, and eventually he came to the answer he sought in an 'aha' moment.
Good example. In this case, I identify with Chihiro. My life experiences have led me down a similiar path to self-assuredness as this anime character. Hmm. Yes.
INFJs live to study, survey, or carefully consider ideas and feelings.
The implication supersedes the reality.
Example of Ni Fe: "I will try to tolerate those who do not tolerate me so that they see I am worthy of tolerance."
Example of Ni: "Things are not as they could or should be."
Example of Fe: "How will my thinking affect others?"
INFPs live to distinguish, discriminate, or perceive the difference of ideas and feelings.
The reality supersedes the implication.
Example of Fi Ne: "I will only tolerate those who tolerate me because only those who can tolerate me are worthy of my tolerance."
Example of Ne: "Things are as they are."
Example of Fi: "How will the thinking of others affect me?"
That sounds a lot like that M-person who I shall not name.
For to say the name may summon the person......
*shiver*
I think that the difference between INFJ and INFP is absolutely fascinating.
My mum is an INFP and I'm an INFJ and our relationship is...weird. We can connect very well and share many similar interests and our conversations are usually deep and interesting (we DO share I,N and F).
However, the NiFe, FiNe difference is a subtle tear in our harmony. Oftentimes, I simply cannot forthelifeofme understand how she can be SO unaware of how she's affecting others! I'm not saying all INFPs are like this necessarily, but the FiNe leads her to think of her ideals and feelings as first and foremost ("I will only tolerate those who tolerate me because only those who can tolerate me are worthy of my tolerance"). I often think of her as self-centred and "in her own world." I'm in my own world most of the time, but I am acutely aware of how others around me are thinking. She just doesn't seem to care...which baffles me considerably at times.
Also, because of her Ne against my Ni, I often feel like she's not paying attention to my train of thought (or like she doesn't care about it). Knowing that her mind just jumps around a lot helps me to understand her a lot more and be more patient. Still, sometimes I wish she wouldn't change the subject so much when I really want to explore an idea
Hahaha...I kid (kind of) with the head-smashing. It's funny, though, that I'm the one who tends to get aggravated moreso than she ever does. I feel like if I didn't try hard to be patient and understanding to keep the peace, she'd never do the same. She's not the only INFP I've met, but she's the only one I've spend considerable amounts of time with. I feel bad basing all of my experiences of INFPs just on my relationship with my mother. I've noticed with the other INFPs I've met some of the same tendencies, but, again, I don't know them well enough to come to full conclusions on the matter.
Anyway, I guess MBTI is simply a guidline, not a definite set of rules for each person to follow
I have almost strangled several people over the years because of this very thing, only to find out that they were ENTPs or ENFPs later. It still annoys the hell out of me, but now I know why they what if.
How ironic is that?!
Edit: Though I have to say, the ENTP and ENFP what if machine guns are quite possibly the most annoying human traits in the universe. Not only can they not stop what iffing, they have to blurt it out at obnoxious speed so no one can interrupt them while they are interrupting everyone else. At one point, I had to offer an ENFP "a nice hot cup of shut the hell up". Needless to say, that didn't go over well at all.
In my own experience...
INFPs have very strong feelings that motivate them to all of their actions and are prone to feeling very strongly whatever it is that they are feeling, whether happy, sad, bored, or blah. They also have an intuition that explodes one truth into all of its possibilities (note this does not lead to the impossibilities), but what insights they come to are secondary to their feelings and if they disagree, the INFP will favor their emotions.
INFJs have an intuition that implodes all possibilities into a single truth and they follow this almost implicitly, even if their own emotions are forced to be secondary. They also have strong convictions that make them very senstive but seem sturdy emotionally outwardly.
I hope this helps.
All I'll say is:Chihiro was too...unsure. I can be pretty self-conscious and confused, but I never show it. I'd say my actions would be similar to Chihiro's in some ways, but they would be more decisive and more self-assured. When I don't know what I'm doing, then I make people think I that I do. So I'd appear and act more like Haku, at least once I got established
...However, the NiFe, FiNe difference is a subtle tear in our harmony. Oftentimes, I simply cannot forthelifeofme understand how she can be SO unaware of how she's affecting others! I'm not saying all INFPs are like this necessarily, but the FiNe leads her to think of her ideals and feelings as first and foremost ("I will only tolerate those who tolerate me because only those who can tolerate me are worthy of my tolerance"). I often think of her as self-centred and "in her own world." I'm in my own world most of the time, but I am acutely aware of how others around me are thinking. She just doesn't seem to care...which baffles me considerably at times.
Also, because of her Ne against my Ni, I often feel like she's not paying attention to my train of thought (or like she doesn't care about it). ...
Awesome description, Von Hase. Thanks! This deffinately puts me in the INFP category. And I'm typing in my sleep, must go to bed, please forgive the typoooos.