- MBTI
- ENFJ
- Enneagram
- 2
Middle and working class. Tougher to maintain friends with lower or working class because people expect more of you, want you to carry them, and play on your generosity by mentioning often how tough life is for them. They expect friends doing somewhat better to make up for what they don't have.
I actually find this opinion of lower income people to be downright offensive. It's a massive generalisation. I read it the other day and wasn't going to say anything, but it's stuck with me for a couple of days now. I'm not easily offended, but this one really bothers me.
As someone who is lower income, it feels like an attack on my character. It's really just not true. Maybe of individuals, but not as you've written it -- the lower income and working class. You've obviously never been a part of either of these categories if you could speak this way. Many of us are very embarassed and struggle with how we are perceived.
I have friends from all walks of life, money income bracket and class is never an issue. The only time it becomes an issue for me is if I tell someone I can't afford to spend anything and would like to do something for free like go for a walk or have a picnic,and they ignore me and try to bully me into spending money at a restaraunt or something. It's embarassing. I either end up having to spend money I can't afford to spend or else I politely turn down their offer to pay.
It's harder with my middle class bracket friends as most of them seem to be more extroverted and like to go out at night a lot. This usually doesn't work for me as babysitting is very hard to get and going out is expesnive. Honestly, I think it has more to do with being having a child and being a single parent than it does with money.