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As far as romantic relationships go, there are no exes.
But for relationships is general, it all depends. Usually when I end a relationship it is over. There are a few people whom I've managed to rekindle the friendship on less deep levels, but I'd say the majority of people I've stopped talking to was for a good reason. I find that I usually go back to the people when I am reminiscing over old, fond memories, and then will wonder why I ever ended the relationship.
I will either remember why or get myself in the same spot and then remember exactly what happened last time that justified my decision. I am getting better at -trusting- my past decisions and not giving people second chances simply because I am bored and remember how much they entertained me, that is, when they weren't ripping my life apart in the process.
I have come across a couple of people from the past whom I missed so much that I just had to cave and talk to them again, despite the negative attached to the action of doing so.
But for relationships is general, it all depends. Usually when I end a relationship it is over. There are a few people whom I've managed to rekindle the friendship on less deep levels, but I'd say the majority of people I've stopped talking to was for a good reason. I find that I usually go back to the people when I am reminiscing over old, fond memories, and then will wonder why I ever ended the relationship.
I will either remember why or get myself in the same spot and then remember exactly what happened last time that justified my decision. I am getting better at -trusting- my past decisions and not giving people second chances simply because I am bored and remember how much they entertained me, that is, when they weren't ripping my life apart in the process.
I have come across a couple of people from the past whom I missed so much that I just had to cave and talk to them again, despite the negative attached to the action of doing so.