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Open your heart as well as your mind.
I am curious as to what it means to open your heart. I personally believe I am on a level with my heart that is quite beneficial. I observe my passion, I analyze it's behavior and I determine why it is invoked.
Why do I feel passionate about certain things, why do certain statements make me 'feel' a certain way when I cannot come up with a logical explanation why? Over time I find that I am able to come up with a logical explanation and it helps me to understand myself as a whole.
Both are indeed beneficial and necessary functions to be human. I do find that both are able to mislead each other. If you infer one thing repeatedly, perhaps through an unsound argument, your emotions will succumb.
There is fear attached to certain beliefs we have, they are when an external entity treads on a certain boundary, and behind a barrier inside that boundary is some logical deduction that has caused one to become defensive. We will find most times those barriers are from unsound inferences and should be taken down. Yet, only that person is in control of that barrier, no one else can strip it down. You can attempt to inject dissonance, but that is an art in itself and can really throw some unexpected side effects, as we so commonly see in the news.
Of course, injecting dissonance suggests that you have inferred that your own difference in truth is correct and their's is false. Mutual understanding and fleshing out of these ideas seems much more efficient than arguing your own truth for 3 days without a resolution. If fear is so strong that you cannot express your views until you feel ultimately threatened, then perhaps friction is your best method of getting your views 'out there.'
Personal subjective reality is comprised of many barriers and boundaries and external entities not respecting those can definitely meet with unexpected results. I am not saying respect means leaving them alone entirely, but rather being cautious in your actions and mindful that your truth or inferences aren't necessarily right.
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