Vigilance
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As the title explains, I am curious to know what INFJs are really like. As an INTJ, I have found myself to get along with INFJs; however, most INFJs have been angered at me before for not expressing my emotions to them or talking about my personal life so readily or openly. Do INFJs expect you to discuss emotions or expect you to discuss something personal with them without them having to ask you first? How important are these discussions to INFJs? Does it help you learn more about the person?
One INFJ friend once got mad at me for not talking about my family around him. This kind of threw me off because I am very private and do not readily talk about my family unless asked. He expected me to tell him more about my family and my relationship with them. I had told him the basics about my family once before, but he wanted to know more. One day he exploded and said I don't know if I can trust you as a friend, you never talk to me about 'personal things' like family. It was as if he expected me to tell him about my family and talk about my relationship with them without him even having to ask me. I was really confused and kind of shocked, honestly. This was a good friend of mine since high school of course. It kind of made me feel real awkward , but I told him more about my family and asked him what exactly he would like to know. I'm curious as to what all this was about and the trust?
So I just wanted to know how important these topics are for you. Feel free to ask more if my question is not readily clear.
One INFJ friend once got mad at me for not talking about my family around him. This kind of threw me off because I am very private and do not readily talk about my family unless asked. He expected me to tell him more about my family and my relationship with them. I had told him the basics about my family once before, but he wanted to know more. One day he exploded and said I don't know if I can trust you as a friend, you never talk to me about 'personal things' like family. It was as if he expected me to tell him about my family and talk about my relationship with them without him even having to ask me. I was really confused and kind of shocked, honestly. This was a good friend of mine since high school of course. It kind of made me feel real awkward , but I told him more about my family and asked him what exactly he would like to know. I'm curious as to what all this was about and the trust?
So I just wanted to know how important these topics are for you. Feel free to ask more if my question is not readily clear.
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