In response to the OP, Wicca itself is a religion that focuses on, usually, a female godhead, either alone or along with a usually equal male one. The main tenet, that of "and it harm none, do what you will" does not imply to me, as it seems to for others, that not moral or personal accountability is involved. Soneone who knows about abuse that is going on and refuses to report it out of cowardice or indifference is, in my opinion, almost as guilty as the abuser. If what I want can be gained only through manipulation, degradation, or any other kind of physical, emotional, or psychological harm, my doing these things to acquire what I want is in direct violation of Wicca's main principles. Concerning magic and its application, I believe, personally, that this is more in the direction of witchcraft itself, as I do not believe that this is necessarily linked with one's relation to Deity. I also found the previous comment regarding the three Wiccan-wannabes and group sex to be not only highly inaccurate and offensive, but ignorantly dismissive and judgmental. The same goes for the person whose post proclaimed there so-called Christianity while at the same time consigning any non-Christian to their proverbial Hell and condoning their own narrowness of mind. Now that that's out of the way, there are several books I would recommend for getting started with Wicca. Some of these Are:
Philosophy of Wicca by Amber Lain Fisher
The Practical Pagan: Commonsense Guidelines for Modern Practitioners by Dana D. Eilers
The Wicca Handbook by Eileen Holland
The Spiral Dance by Starhawk
The Circle Within as well as The Body Sacred by Diane Sylvan
For books on Goddess Wicca:
Diane Stein's Guide to Goddess Craft by Diane Stein, as well as Casting the Circle: a Woman's Book of Ritual by same
The Goddess Path by Patricia Monnaghan
Hope this helps.
Chenoa