Zero
Regular Poster
- MBTI
- INFJ
Is it normal for an infj to be completely indecisive when it comes to dating or is it just me?
I seem to have a bad habit of looking at people I would like to date and then focusing too hard on their flaws rather than base my opinions on the essentials of what I was attracted to in the first place.
It almost seems like I look at other people, become enamored with them, and then second guess myself or try to convince myself of some reason that things wouldn't work with that person. Like focusing on one particular interest they might have that I disagree with and suddenly that becomes my reason for not even trying. This always makes me believe there's something "wrong" with me. Maybe I'm too much of a perfectionist?
...or maybe I'm just too in love with myself
I dunno, anyone else do this? :|
I seem to have a bad habit of looking at people I would like to date and then focusing too hard on their flaws rather than base my opinions on the essentials of what I was attracted to in the first place.
It almost seems like I look at other people, become enamored with them, and then second guess myself or try to convince myself of some reason that things wouldn't work with that person. Like focusing on one particular interest they might have that I disagree with and suddenly that becomes my reason for not even trying. This always makes me believe there's something "wrong" with me. Maybe I'm too much of a perfectionist?
...or maybe I'm just too in love with myself

I dunno, anyone else do this? :|