INFJ and number of sex partners.

INFJ and number of sex partners

  • 0

    Votes: 73 36.3%

  • 1

    Votes: 32 15.9%

  • 2-3

    Votes: 32 15.9%

  • 4-5

    Votes: 14 7.0%

  • 6-7

    Votes: 16 8.0%

  • 8-9

    Votes: 3 1.5%

  • 10-15

    Votes: 14 7.0%

  • 15-20

    Votes: 4 2.0%

  • 20+

    Votes: 13 6.5%
  • Total voters
    201
I am a virgin, woo.

That kind of commitment is just too big a deal for me.
Also, I mean promiscuity...
I wouldn't be able to get past the bit that someone elses junk is on my future parterns junk or whatever. that sounds gross but frankly, it is gross!

Also, I hope I'm not completely bonkers for hoping to marry a virgin. :P
 
And btdubs I meant partner. I'm so braindead lately.
 
Ideally, I'd like to lose my virginity with the person I marry.... before I marry them. I would hate to wait for marriage because if they don't want to do it before marriage, they're not going to want to do it after marriage either. I don't think people change that much.
 
I was actually thinking about this very topic quite recently!

I'm also a virgin (hurray for the virgins!) by choice. The chance for me to lose it definitely presented itself but I wanted to be in a long term relationship where I was was completely and utterly madly in love with the person. That ever famous INFJ "connection" is a must for me or else it would've just been fucking not making love, you know?

I don't think I can wait until I get married to have sex due to the fact that I can only get married in three states (hurray for being gay! -_- ) but I will wait for a committed relationship.

I took a random quiz once that calculated the amount of sexual partners you'll have in a lifetime. It said I'll probably only have one. I'm going to guess at most, three.
 
I don't think I'd have to be in love with a girl to fuck her, just have that emotional and physical "connection" that you speak of. I could never shag a girl I'd just met and only if I found her physically attractive either. It would just be weird. I would feel like... I violated not only her but myself.
 
Dragon said:
Ideally, I'd like to lose my virginity with the person I marry.... before I marry them. I would hate to wait for marriage because if they don't want to do it before marriage, they're not going to want to do it after marriage either. I don't think people change that much.
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That's not necessarily true because you have to know the reason why they're choosing to be celibate. Some folks have religious reasons, others just don't want any STDs. Others want to know more about it, or they want to experiment with their husband. And some just don't want to get "accidentally pregnant".

You can't say someone's waiting because they don't like sex; there could be other reasons.

But I get what you're saying. A lot of people want to see if they're compatible or not, too.
 
I've had a whopping total of two. The first one was because I changed my mind about waiting until I was married, then decided maybe I didn't want to get married, after all. But he developed schizophrenia and became abusive due to extreme immaturity and inability to deal with anything resembling a problem (highly underdeveloped ISFP), and he had to go home to his mother. The second one is thirteen years older than me, also an ISFP, but infinitely more mature and stable, and he's only had one experience, a seemingly typical SP high school party thing. So I'm the only one he's ever been with, and I hope it stays that way!
 
I don't even know how to count this, it could go from virgin all the way up to 4.
 
Eniko said:
I don't even know how to count this, it could go from virgin all the way up to 4.
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4 blow jobs?

Either way, I'm not gonna lie, I nail different women every day.
Ok, I lied I'm a virgin :spy:
 
No, that would make it far far less confusing. It's complicated. :tongue:
 
Eniko said:
No, that would make it far far less confusing. It's complicated. :tongue:
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I don't get it, hand jobs then?

But seriously, either you have had sex, or you haven't. Oral sex included
 
This stuff is a lot more clear cut if you're:
1. Straight
2. Not into more exotic stuff

Neither of which applies to me. Fortunately this has left me with an increased capacity to think of concepts as being a virgin and counting the number of people you've been with as pointless minutiae.

EDIT: Why isn't this in the mature section anyway?
 
Eniko said:
This stuff is a lot more clear cut if you're:
1. Straight
2. Not into more exotic stuff

Neither of which applies to me. Fortunately this has left me with an increased capacity to think of concepts as being a virgin and counting the number of people you've been with as pointless minutiae.

EDIT: Why isn't this in the mature section anyway?
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Ok, did you not have clothes on and were touching each others happy areas?
 
Way to miss the point...
 
Eniko said:
Way to miss the point...
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Indeed. Might be because I've had a few too many drinks, but either way, you're not making any sense.

Besides being straight or not doesn't really make a difference.

"Any fool can make something complicated. It takes a genius to make it simple"
 
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^ It's not good to lose your virginity untill you're married. A lot of couples have sexual problems, but if you're both virgins, then you can't compare one person's way of sex with another.

Dragon said:
Ideally, I'd like to lose my virginity with the person I marry.... before I marry them. I would hate to wait for marriage because if they don't want to do it before marriage, they're not going to want to do it after marriage either. I don't think people change that much.
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Some girls just worry that if you do it before marriage then the next morning when they wake up they're gone and you never see them again. It happens a lot.
 
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I don't get how come the vast majority are virgins. lol. unless a lot of people on this site are under 20.

I would say that probably, INFJs require more emotional intimacy than other types and are not as likely to totally whore themselves out like some of the "E" types we all know.

About the 20+.... I have heard of a lot of people who exceed 20. One who was at 100. But if it's at 1000, they are either a rock star who banged every groupie that came his way, a porn star, or some kind of thing like that, would be my opinion.

Once I saw a show about a porn star in which the porn star said she had slept with 3200 people. And I am thinking... how can you not have a disease after sleeping with 3200 people. ????:m035:
 
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