Hey there, so I'm into dark (not necessarily pure psychological mindfuck, just regular dark) sci-fi of psychological/horror series like Steins;Gate - so much fatalism, Chaos Theory, adorable ENTP/INTJ dynamics (not in a fetish way but holy shit Kurisu gave me some good laughs) maybe even Simulation Theory is implied, the way Mayuri and Kurisu keep getting killed in different, sometimes brutal ways seems awfully clockwork and programmed, like a digital clock with a respawning power source. Also , series like Higurashi When they Cry, Rika is a really cute INFJ hidden protagonist. She reminds of the way I was when I was 10, feeling so old, but being stuck in a child's body. Psycho-Pass is another good one with another relatable INFJ protagonist. Her alignment is basically mine. I'm someone who prefers Deontology over Utilitarianism (we all saw Death Note where this is literally the plot), but sometimes Deontology fails, or has loopholes like the Sybil system, and people can exploit that. In Sword Art Online, in the Alicization arc we see toxic deontology in the form of physical and emotional restrictions. Like we can rape young girls (legally still following the deontological "rules with loopholes") but we can't save said girls from being violated because of some contrived loophole that assholes use against good people. System exploit spotted. Eugeo lost an eye for that, and got imprisoned with Kirito (some people hate this OP protagonist) but you have to admit, if a girl was getting raped right in front of you in real life, would you use that Deontology when the rules of the system are inherently flawed? I mean ok Ronye and Tiese are kinda like really sentient AIs, but they still have awareness and feel pain. For me I couldn't care less if they're not full flesh and blood, if they have awareness of themselves, intelligence, can feel pain, and other human attributes, it's not that different from us human video gamers, isn't it?
So here's my list:
1) Steins;Gate
2) Higurashi When they Cry
3) Psycho-Pass
4) Sword Art Online - unless you're one of those SAO haters just because - personally I've watched dozens of series that are way worse
5) Neon Genesis Evangelion
6) Monster, this one's a bit harder to find
7) K-On! - Mio is a really cool and cute INFJ bassist and she's a lefty, sounds a bit like Paul McCartney. Mind you I think Paul is less shy, but my underwear has been exposed in front of a lot of people at school, I'm like Mio in that sense, you can't just forget that much embarrassment)
8) Ouran High School Host Club - pretty sure Haruhi is INFJ, and it's reverse-harem so have fun with these guys and all their nonsense
9) The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya - Itsuki is INFJ I'm 99% sure. I also have light ESP powers, although I can't control them much. And also as someone on the autism spectrum, Haruhi and Yuki are damn relatable. I'm closer to Yuki but there are days I can venture into Haruhi territory, much to everyone's dismay. Did you know? Autistic adults that are even a bit extroverted are seen as even more annoying. *sigh* We're not that annoying, just very misunderstood.
10) Death Note - speaking of autism. I'm not at all at L's or Near's level. These are quite high functioning, possibly with Savant Syndrome. I like puzzles too, but I'm not master class puzzler with an all-white puzzle. Also some anime memes comes from this anime, some of the artistry is a bit unfriendly for people with sensory issues, but those lines, that psychotic laughter from Light. L's literal understand of everything, his very particular stims, random stuff that he does all the time. I do those things some days (not in the exact same way, just generally, but I hate bitter food and drink, damn NTs being able to drink black coffee makes me so envious).
11) The Pet Girl of Sakurasou - ok this is seemingly turning into a #AutismAwarenessMonth post, but this series is so heartwarming, even with it's main character being a bit aloof. Shina Mashiro is probably moderate functiioning autistic, but she's some kind of art Savant if I ever saw one. Not all autistic people can draw well, that's just a very bad stereotype, kinda like how we're all math geniuses - I'm actually better at chemistry than math. I have mild dysgraphia and my motor skills overall are generally crap. How I ever made it through art and gym class in school I'll never know. Anyway give this series a try, it's pretty cute.
12) Angel Beats - not the best anime overall, but Kanade "Angel" Tachibana reminds me of how people used to treat me in grade school and high school because they didn't understand my ASD, they single you out, isolate you in gym class, isolate you in the hallways, isolate you in the classroom or cafeteria. Whether I made eye contact or not with them it's the same reaction. Not all NTs can spot when someone is exhaustingly masking autism, but some of them can tell that something is "off". Yeah things were off, classrooms are so loud, feet tapping, pencils clicking, chalk writing and squeaking, doors opening and closing way too much loud noises at lunch time - we can perceive dB levels about 2-3 times louder than an NT, 70 dB is loud, 80 dB is some of our limits, certainly by 90 dB we're way overstimulated and feel like we're in pain. School environments when you have classrooms of 15-20 are hard for people on the spectrum, but when you have more like 35 or more kids in one class, and everything they do is just way too close for me, it's just like a mini-meltdown waiting to happen. Doesn't help that you can be asexual/demisexual and the opposite sex is right up in your personal space (sometimes they do it to aggressively tease you, it's not funny, and putting your hand on my leg or touching my face with a super soft touch is inappropriate and borders sexual harassment, not to mention it's a very bad sensation for us - we have to have it somewhere between very soft and very hard). Anyway I get what Angel was going through, she wasn't really the bad guy, she just wanted to help some people.
Some to consider: Any Fate series, especially Fate/Zero, Code Geass, Suzaku is an INFJ I'm sure, and finally Future Diary, Yuno is um...yeah she's an INFJ alright, and I guess she might be some person's waifu out there but just know I've been with a woman who had violent tendencies, some of which she acted out on with me, and I can safely say - if you have an unstable cute girlfriend that is even a bit yandere (Yuno's like the poster child for yandere characters), get the hell away from her. In real life, you're lucky if you even survive. I've been assaulted too many times to count, some of the damage is permanent. Be wary of the yandere, or in real life, just an unstable person with past mental trauma. There may be cases where they don't start becoming too violent with you, but even a little violence is unacceptable. I wouldn't wanna date a painfully aggressive tsundere type either. It's not conducive to a healthy relationship, certainly not a healthy sex life.