magister343
Permanent Fixture
- MBTI
- INTP
- Enneagram
- stupid system (5w4)
Bloodbuzz Ohio by the National is a definite favorite of an amazing girl I know whom I strongly suspect of being an INFJ. I first discovered the song and band from her blog. Incidentally she is an amazing singer herself.
(As a couple people here may know, this is a girl I asked out back at the start of September. I hadn't seen her at church for a few weeks before that so I did so though email, and her rejection was through email. She said she was impressed with how heedful and serious-minded my message was but had to be as honest as I requested and so turned me down. She first stated that she would be leaving town soon and was in too transitional a phase of her life to be able to consider any dating relationship, but then continued that she had never thought of me as more than a friend. I responded gracefully enough (Bird though it a great reply) and emphasized that I still sincerely hope to stay in touch and become closer friends despite the distance, but she never responded. A couple weeks later when I last saw her in person our conversation seemed friendly enough and without any of the awkwardness I had feared, but there were plenty of others around who wanted to talk with her so we couldn't speak long. I learned from hearing her talk to others that after taking the LSAT she might be coming back to the area for law school next semester or more likely next year. (I recall from a conversation a year and a half ago that her ambition is to the an immigration lawyer.) I sent her another email again expressing how glad I was to see her one more time and affirming my desire to be better friends as well unwillingness to force the matter if it made her in any way uncomfortable. Again, there was no response. I was never even informed as to the date of her departure or her destination, although I could see from her facebook wall that she left for her family's home near Chicago on the first of last month. She then posted a note apologizing to all her good friends she was too busy to bid adieu, among which I hoped I was included. A few weeks after that it seemed she changed her privacy settings so that I can't see her notes or old profile pics anymore, but as this was at the same time as she changed her home city I assumed it was a meaningless and automatic change. A week after that though her settings were changed further, so that her wall was also inaccessible. This was the day after I said in the Mytype application that I suspect her of being an INFJ, which got posted to her wall. I assumed at first though that she had just shut down her wall to everyone in order to remove distractions while studying for the LSAT, as the little box below her profile did change at that time to be about the LSAT. (Since then it changed to "I like it when you vote" followed by links to websites where one could confirm voter registration information and find lists of candidates on the ballot, which has not been changed again since the election.) I've started wondering since then though, as two weeks ago she started posting more on other people's walls again and these look like parts of wall to wall conversations where half is hidden to me. I've checked her blog a few times but found only one brief entry about frustration in LSAT studying. I also checked her twitter account once or twice a week, from which I learned that she cut her hair, had a bad cold, and less than an hour ago finished her LSAT prep booklet. I've had difficulty concentrating on my school work a lot in the past couple weeks because I can't decide whether I ought to try to contact her again. The reminder from the link to that song at this time did not help with this.)
(As a couple people here may know, this is a girl I asked out back at the start of September. I hadn't seen her at church for a few weeks before that so I did so though email, and her rejection was through email. She said she was impressed with how heedful and serious-minded my message was but had to be as honest as I requested and so turned me down. She first stated that she would be leaving town soon and was in too transitional a phase of her life to be able to consider any dating relationship, but then continued that she had never thought of me as more than a friend. I responded gracefully enough (Bird though it a great reply) and emphasized that I still sincerely hope to stay in touch and become closer friends despite the distance, but she never responded. A couple weeks later when I last saw her in person our conversation seemed friendly enough and without any of the awkwardness I had feared, but there were plenty of others around who wanted to talk with her so we couldn't speak long. I learned from hearing her talk to others that after taking the LSAT she might be coming back to the area for law school next semester or more likely next year. (I recall from a conversation a year and a half ago that her ambition is to the an immigration lawyer.) I sent her another email again expressing how glad I was to see her one more time and affirming my desire to be better friends as well unwillingness to force the matter if it made her in any way uncomfortable. Again, there was no response. I was never even informed as to the date of her departure or her destination, although I could see from her facebook wall that she left for her family's home near Chicago on the first of last month. She then posted a note apologizing to all her good friends she was too busy to bid adieu, among which I hoped I was included. A few weeks after that it seemed she changed her privacy settings so that I can't see her notes or old profile pics anymore, but as this was at the same time as she changed her home city I assumed it was a meaningless and automatic change. A week after that though her settings were changed further, so that her wall was also inaccessible. This was the day after I said in the Mytype application that I suspect her of being an INFJ, which got posted to her wall. I assumed at first though that she had just shut down her wall to everyone in order to remove distractions while studying for the LSAT, as the little box below her profile did change at that time to be about the LSAT. (Since then it changed to "I like it when you vote" followed by links to websites where one could confirm voter registration information and find lists of candidates on the ballot, which has not been changed again since the election.) I've started wondering since then though, as two weeks ago she started posting more on other people's walls again and these look like parts of wall to wall conversations where half is hidden to me. I've checked her blog a few times but found only one brief entry about frustration in LSAT studying. I also checked her twitter account once or twice a week, from which I learned that she cut her hair, had a bad cold, and less than an hour ago finished her LSAT prep booklet. I've had difficulty concentrating on my school work a lot in the past couple weeks because I can't decide whether I ought to try to contact her again. The reminder from the link to that song at this time did not help with this.)
