大家好...前一段时间,对人生没有方向,也没有目标。 虽然已经接受了“社会的阴暗”,但是没有动力的方向。列举了自己喜欢的东西,但是由于现实原因也无法去做,感觉人生已经固定了。 不知道国外的同伴,这辈子准备怎么度过
"Thank you for your reply. It's great if the things you like can be used to make a living. However, I have the responsibility of supporting my parents. The social system designed by the government makes it difficult for us to escape from the rules they set. The first thing to do is to earn enough money to ensure material needs are met, so I can reclaim my time and step out of this game.Reflecting back on my life (I'm in my 70s) I've found that we INFJs need several strings to our bow. One of these is some sort of way to make a living of course, but another is to explore our spirituality. A third is through our family, as much helping others through the hardships of their lives as much as sharing good times with them. A fourth is to have an intense interest in something that is entirely our own - a hobby for example - in which we can express ourselves. I worked in a field that was pretty analytical, so I chose private interests that explored more emotional and artistic things, such as photography.
These aren't necessarily mutually exclusive, but if they blend then there may be a need for something else as well. For example, if photography had been a major part of my career then it would not have given me the contrast I needed in my private life.
It's very easy to become despondent because of the darkness in the air around us, socially speaking. We INFJs have a very deep inner life, though, and it's in there we can find light and hope quite independent of our surrounding world - and bring it out to bless others around us, maybe?
Reflecting back on my life (I'm in my 70s) I've found that we INFJs need several strings to our bow. Onf these is some sort of way to make a living of course, but another is to explore our spirituality. A
I think in dealing with depression, neither we should change the world (if we ever could) nor do we need to change ourselves ... All we should do is accept the situation we are in and try to find the best solution to cope with it ... and for this, we need to become mentally strong (What is your self-improvement plan?) ... and I do believe that if depression becomes intense and affect our daily life, it sure needs treatment otherwise we waste our precious lifetime to gain nothing ...Depression and pain remind me that I need to either change my environment or change myself.