QFTINFJs makes the best cuddle buddies.
So INFJs are weak victims who can’t handle sex or be dominant?
Yes. INFJs have inferior Se. The inferior function is invariably a place of victimization. Any “INFJs” who disagree aren’t really INFJs or they’re lying to themselves because they value being cool over being healthy. A delusional INFJ thinks they’re physically powerful. The deceiving nature of the inferior function makes it so that people will come into the INFJ’s life and puff them up with compliments, telling them that they’re good at physical stuff, have a lot of power, potential, etc., tempting them further into self-destruction by leading them away from Ni, which is where they’re actually powerful. INFJs only have spiritual power because they have dominant Ni.
Inferior Se makes it so that the physical world (and physical activities) are perceived as “cool” and “edgy” by the INFJ, so there’s a big incentive for the INFJ to fight who they really are in order to attain or maintain perceived worldly status (protect a fragile/narcissistic ego). In reality, the INFJ’s worldly status (and physical sexual prowess) is pathetic compared to the natural masters of worldliness, ESTPs and ESFPs.
In order for an INFJ to do what they’re good at, which is being a spiritual powerhouse, they have to honor their physical weakness (have boundaries with inferior Se to free up dominant Ni). It’s just like how an ESTP can’t be a physical powerhouse until they honor their spiritual weakness (have boundaries with inferior Ni to free up dominant Se).
INFJs are only in a position of power, sex-wise, when they have Ni sex, which is Kundalini, a completely self-contained spiritual experience. Since INFJs are naturally at the top of the spiritual food chain, this stuff isn’t a big deal to them, so in order to see how powerful it is, they have to mention it to some ESTPs, who will visibly tremble with fear if they have any experience with it, because what’s so easy, safe, and comfortable for the INFJ makes the ESTP psychotic. It’s their worst nightmare and the only thing that can truly destroy them. They are simultaneously fascinated by it, which is why it’s their greatest temptation. Physical stuff (including sex) isn’t cool or edgy to ESTPs, but spirituality is, because it’s dangerous for them.
Inferior function = weakness, prey
Dominant function = power, predator
INFJs naturally have a nondual understanding of spirituality because they have dominant Ni* so they understand Kundalini to be inclusive of all subjective spiritual experiences, just like I understand Satan to be the totality of all spiritual entities and synonymous with Kundalini (the general, universal, mystical principle).
*the dominant function is always nondual
I dunno... I'm just being devils advocate but let's say that your SO would incarnate into a physical form, and he wanted to plough. Would you bone? Or, would you be adamant on Ni sex?Yes. INFJs have inferior Se. The inferior function is invariably a place of victimization. Any “INFJs” who disagree aren’t really INFJs or they’re lying to themselves because they value being cool over being healthy. A delusional INFJ thinks they’re physically powerful. The deceiving nature of the inferior function makes it so that people will come into the INFJ’s life and puff them up with compliments, telling them that they’re good at physical stuff, have a lot of power, potential, etc., tempting them further into self-destruction by leading them away from Ni, which is where they’re actually powerful. INFJs only have spiritual power because they have dominant Ni.
Inferior Se makes it so that the physical world (and physical activities) are perceived as “cool” and “edgy” by the INFJ, so there’s a big incentive for the INFJ to fight who they really are in order to attain or maintain perceived worldly status (protect a fragile/narcissistic ego). In reality, the INFJ’s worldly status (and physical sexual prowess) is pathetic compared to the natural masters of worldliness, ESTPs and ESFPs.
In order for an INFJ to do what they’re good at, which is being a spiritual powerhouse, they have to honor their physical weakness (have boundaries with inferior Se to free up dominant Ni). It’s just like how an ESTP can’t be a physical powerhouse until they honor their spiritual weakness (have boundaries with inferior Ni to free up dominant Se).
INFJs are only in a position of power, sex-wise, when they have Ni sex, which is Kundalini, a completely self-contained spiritual experience. Since INFJs are naturally at the top of the spiritual food chain, this stuff isn’t a big deal to them, so in order to see how powerful it is, they have to mention it to some ESTPs, who will visibly tremble with fear if they have any experience with it, because what’s so easy, safe, and comfortable for the INFJ makes the ESTP psychotic. It’s their worst nightmare and the only thing that can truly destroy them. They are simultaneously fascinated by it, which is why it’s their greatest temptation. Physical stuff (including sex) isn’t cool or edgy to ESTPs, but spirituality is, because it’s dangerous for them.
Inferior function = weakness, prey
Dominant function = power, predator
INFJs naturally have a nondual understanding of spirituality because they have dominant Ni* so they understand Kundalini to be inclusive of all subjective spiritual experiences, just like I understand Satan to be the totality of all spiritual entities and synonymous with Kundalini (the general, universal, mystical principle).
*the dominant function is always nondual
I had sex with about 40 people when I was stuck in my inferior function and being a fake ESTP, but it was really all just rape, even when I initiated things, because as an INFJ I don’t have enough physical power to be anything but a victim.
Hey bb, the apocalypse can wait, Satan wants to plough.let's say that Satan would incarnate into a physical form, and he wanted to plough. Would you bone?
LMFAO bb 'devil'sI dunno... I'm just being devils advocate but let's say that your SO would incarnate into a physical form, and he wanted to plough. Would you bone? Or, would you be adamant on Ni sex?
HahahhahhI dunno... I'm just being devils advocate but let's say that your SO would incarnate into a physical form, and he wanted to plough. Would you bone? Or, would you be adamant on Ni sex?
Hey bb, the apocalypse can wait, Satan wants to plough.
hahahah I had to get my message across. "Fuck" didn't sufficeHahahhahh
Seeing someone as elegant as you using words like “plough“ and “bone” is reeeaallyyy making me giggle
LMFAO what even is NI sex anyway? Intimate love making I’m guessing?Hey bb, the apocalypse can wait, Satan wants to plough.
LOL I just thought about the coneheads when I read Ni-sex
HahahahaLMFAO what even is NI sex anyway? Intimate love making I’m guessing?
What’s wrong with mixing it up every once in a while? You can plough on Fridays and do the NI thing on other scheduled days.
I dunno... I'm just being devils advocate but let's say that your SO would incarnate into a physical form, and he wanted to plough. Would you bone? Or, would you be adamant on Ni sex?
It can be lots fun when there is chemistry. I tend to be quite quirky and come up with suprising comments/acts to bring up the laugh and discomfort.
I had a conversation about this with a female friend of mine and she recommended to be more straightforward. I usully give small hints but now I have started to out there and show that I am interested in the person. Though this only works when I feel grounded.
The past few years have been tough and because that I have become way more certain about myself and what it is that I want. I am never seeking and guess that is something that many females find attractive. It is a challenge, a game for them to find out more of that guy who seems enjoy his life without the need to please or impress others. I enjoy the thrill to go outside of my comfort zone and experiece the excitement, especially when it transforms into sexual excitement.
I can go savage -mode and really talk about the most akward topics in a formal manner like as if was totally normal. I love how the brain goes tilt when it cannot predict what comes next. If you observe why we laugh it is often when the logical mind’s predictions fail. That microsecond of confusion triggers spasms in our facial muscles as our analytical reality is shattered for a short period of time. A moment of genuine relief.
Being more you is funny as hell! And everyone likes funny people, or at least most of them.
this is very interesting on the whole seeker thing, osho actualy have a whole talk on it, tell me what you think?
https://www.osho.com/iosho/library/...8aa3f0-683?p=b167b6690add21b56d973c5c0082cf10
also iv been trying to get what osho's mbti type was, and since what you said about not being the seeker, and thats why women ends up seeking correlates so much to osho's thoughts perhaps he was an infj also..
anyways, what other info can you give me on being the seeker ect...?