Is an infj more apt to let their feelings get hurt than other types?

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Are we more apt to let or allow something to hurt our feelings than other types? I would like to hear how others would respond to this, if I may....and if we do seem to "get" our feelings hurt easier. Is it a weakness or does it build heart? Can it cripple for life? Can we change our feelings as we grow? Any thoughts on the matter would be greatly appreciated.

I find that my feelings are too sensitive. On the other hand I can't stop them either. For me it's a matter of wading threw them and deciding if I even need to listen to them. Feelings seem to be my own worst enemy. Wish I could change it but I have tried and failed miserably...

 

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I wouldn't expect many people to listen to others.

It's important to have someone that will, though.

Good point. I don't think I expressed myself clearly enough. I meant that I expect people to do it because it's a nice thing to do and what you should do (in my opinion), but at the same time I know that reality is not that way. That is a bit disheartening to me.