An important thing to realize is that a lot of Cobain's songs are from the perspective of a narrator.
Yes, it's almost certainly intentionally misogynistic, or at least the narrator is in a position of power over a weaker/struggling being, a common motif in several Nirvana songs ("Floyd the Barber" and "Verse Chorus Verse" come to mind).
Kurt Cobain marketed himself as an idealized version of himself, like many rockstars do. He wanted to be seen as a carefree, angsty and possibly out-of-control artist. There's enough evidence, however, that he was a hard-working perfectionist, and he was intelligent enough to write his songs from perspectives that represented the horrors in our world that he struggled to live with, and he frequently employed a third-person viewpoint to do so.
Anything that I've heard from Nirvana that seemed extremely overt also comes off as sarcastic upon further analysis/inspection... Great band!