She is relentless.i can't wait for Ms.Harris to destroy Pence in a debate. .if he has any sense he will find a way to avoid it all together
Lol. So many ways to destroy that tweet.
Lol. So many ways to destroy that tweet.
'Do feminism by staying at home...'
Maybe she lacks self-awareness.
I'll not be scalded for that remark, Asa, come on now.Feminism is about equality and CHOICE. Being a homemaker is OK. Being a career woman is OK. Being chaste is OK. Being promiscuous is OK. ETC.
We could criticize most politicians for the personal choices we disagree with. Let's stick to politics.
But you can be a feminist from at home--In your kitchen--Taking care of your family. If that's the life you chose. So it's not really funny.I'll not be scalded for that remark, Asa, come on now.
There's clearly a joke one could make out of that tweet along the lines of 'yeah, let's be feminists at home, from the kitchen, where we belong!'.
There's nothing more to it than that.
I'll not be scalded for that remark, Asa, come on now.
There's clearly a joke one could make out of that tweet along the lines of 'yeah, let's be feminists at home, from the kitchen, where we belong!'.
There's nothing more to it than that.
But you can be a feminist from at home--In your kitchen--Taking care of your family. If that's the life you chose. So it's not really funny.
Are you guys insane? The joke isn't based upon what's 'true', only what the particular cultural riff is.Feminism allows for women to "stay home".
Try to grasp the idea that you could be wrong about something you've done very little research about and have a bias against.
Uh oh. Now we're insane.Are you guys insane? The joke isn't based upon what's 'true', only what the particular cultural riff is.
And don't try to impute what my biases are, Asa, that's very disrespectful.
You should calm the fuck down, acd.Uh oh. Now we're insane.
Hysterical women!
To be clear, I'm not saying they're relevant, I'm saying that the joke is in there in the tweet. I don't know what you're objecting to, to be honest.What's funny to me is men thinking these jokes are still relevant.
How can it be disrespectful when it's based upon a stereotype?I'm not mad at you so I hope you aren't taking this personal. But your joke was disrespectful.
Well, if I look at my notes books, this is the 'research' on feminism research I've done formally, though I'm only including published academic research (monographs and journal articles) and primary sources:Feminism allows for women to "stay home".
Try to grasp the idea that you could be wrong about something you've done very little research about
What do you think I have a bias against, @Asa?...and have a bias against.
Hmm... You'll have to find that for me (I've looked).Edit: I care for you, @Deleted member 16771, but let's not pretend you haven't been on an anti-feminism binge. You listed it as something you don't find attractive in a thread about dating qualities.
What are you suggesting?@Deleted member 16771 – I read your posts. I'm not saying I don't get it, but.....
I'm not trying to 'twist' anything, Asa.And stop trying to twist this.
Lol, so you're saying I'm not booked? Normally that would be fine, but in this case I'm not even claiming it as a 'joke' I would make, just that it's there; her wording is unfortunate.And your joke wasn't funny. LOL.
Well you're going to have to suffer the tangent you've created by calling someone out.And now this is exploding into a tangent when we should be focused on policy and the VP candidate.
Do you mean this?:Edit: I care for you, @Deleted member 16771, but let's not pretend you haven't been on an anti-feminism binge. You listed it as something you don't find attractive in a thread about dating qualities.
Guess who's back? Back again? Guess who's back? Tell a friend!
Sorry, just had to write that since I haven't created a thread in ages.
Anyway, here goes.
Although none of us are fish per say , I'm curious about how changes to our society and cultures affect what we look for in a mate. Has your criteria changed for what makes someone a great partner yesterday vs. today based on social, economic, cultural, or political changes? Has recent politics shaped your idea of how a partner should think or feel? What qualities are becoming more significant or relevant for relationships today that wasn't that significant in the past? How do you think this has changed how people express or promote themselves on dating sites or how they present themselves in potential dating situations? Are some interests more significant or visible compared to others?
Is having one set of interests more important than others?
One of the things I've noticed is attention-seeking behavior. If you don't put yourself out there and "show up" in a big way, it's harder to be seen or noticed. On some level, this makes sense because there are far more options available for the average person than there were in previous decades because of travel, communication, immigration, etc. However, it almost seems as if having more options, means your own unique qualities can be easily fade. It also seems that one set of qualities are privileged over others, so if A is valued and you have more of B, you may not be as noticeable because A is seen as the trait of the day.
Because of the recent political engagement, it also seems that activism is now a new standard. If you are not standing up and vocal about a cause, then you're not saying much. And you're expected to be firmly on one side or another. Not much balance. What do you think?
Oh boy, this is a big one.
I'll have a think about my own personal position, but in general:
- Being a declared feminist is now much less attractive than it once was (either gender).
- Being respectful with women is now extremely suspect because of a sustained attack against 'nice guys', 'SIMPs', 'neckbeards', 'pedestalising', &c.
Sexual politics has become an extremely dense minefield, and the way people attempt to tiptoe around the mines and navigate the new and ever changing rules has become a characteristic feature of Western culture.
The whole thing is baffling, and to be honest everytime I hear a term like 'SIMP' I just switch off. I want to distance myself as much as possible from the whole 'sexual insults' culture of the West because there's little I find more distasteful.
Generally I think people get on fine without all of this ridiculous cultural baggage.
cuz poofather said so
I don't hide the fact that I'm a shill for the Democratic Party.cuz poofather said so