language of the heart

[TigersGoRAWR]

There are many a time where I have very much ignored my heart and gone with my head. My head always appeared to be wrong though, and I have learned from those experiences not to trust my minds decisions.

My mind once said I would be fine at a party, where I know everyone would be pissed. But I had a feeling in me, telling me not to go, and that was my heart. My heart was right, because when I got there, I had a panic attack for 2 hours.

So yes, I have definitely learned to follow my heart a lot more. xD

 

[myself]

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HDvZGKlxL1Q"]YouTube - Nassim Haramein with New Energy Movement[/ame]

 

[aerosol]

The trick is to know the difference between your Egoic desires and the true heart wish.

I can't see how the Ego has a place in one's heart.
Wishes from the heart are always true.
They're desperate cries for love that cannot be obtained, situations that are highly inconvenient and distressing, people that are only distant dreams and almost never part of what others refer to as "reality". Things that have the potential to mess you up forever and leave you in a sucidial mind frame.

Or maybe that's just me.

 

[Gaze]

I think it would be not a good idea. Actually, most of the things my gut tells me is ridiculous, so as much as i'm tempted by impulse to follow it, it woudn't be good result. I would've lost a ton of opportunities if I did.

 

[Kgal]

I can't see how the Ego has a place in one's heart.
Wishes from the heart are always true.
They're desperate cries for love that cannot be obtained, situations that are highly inconvenient and distressing, people that are only distant dreams and almost never part of what others refer to as "reality". Things that have the potential to mess you up forever and leave you in a sucidial mind frame.

Or maybe that's just me.

Aerosol?

I guess in my way of thinking about the Ego - you're right in that it has no place in the heart.

It does however place restrictions and conditions upon the heart. If one thinks about the Ego as that part of us that is formed as we are growing up - say before 8 years old - then the needs that weren't met get shoved aside and hidden - or - magnified into large gaping holes. This creates layers and layers within us that interfere with the Heart's true essence of who we are. It can be very confusing to distinguish between the 2. imo one has to delve into the layers and layers of the Ego to untangle the mess. It's those needs and wants we have in us that cause us to seek an "other" heart to complete us - to make us whole - to fill those needs. This is often disguised as Love and seemingly comes from the heart.

(I'm afraid I'm not expressing this very well.)

You are not alone in your pain and anguish when it comes to heart ache over lost love. I think it must be a universal law or something like that because so many have expressed their losses over the centuries. This pain is unbearable at times and I too have had suicidal thoughts when love was wrenched from within me. I'm sorry for your hurts.