PastelpinkPuppy
Regular Poster
- MBTI
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- 4
I dont know what i am anymore. I seem to be using all functions and they seem equally strong or strong enough till i cant differentiate them anymore. Im such a contradiction that it's confusing me too much. I do think i'm an underdeveloped infj and sometimes pretty unhealthy fyi.
But anyway im always thinking about things and analyzing every single thing around me. Sometimes i do think i use Fi when i see my colleagues passing food around and everyone receiving one, most of them have done this to share and care for our teabreak, yet i find myself guilty and rather self centered that i have not done anything but always accepting food from them. We're not obliged to be the giver of the food but i see their hearts much bigger than mine and more willing to share and ask everyone. The guilt then keeps coming in and im thinking of buying better food for them in future but in the meantime i get uneasy with all this.
Then there is the Si part of it. I always say "hey the food doesnt taste as good as it was" or " that smell reminds me of something" etc. Isnt this a really Si trait? But i dont have a concrete memory of things and sometimes doubt myself if i even remember the events properly and factually. Si also is better with money, i suck at it and am extremely bad with money. I have a good eye for bright colors and nice designs and am always attracted to buying them when i see something to my perfectionist tastes. Si is also good with faces, names and remembering things. Whilst i am good with faces and names, i struggle to recall song lyrics of any song,i usually remember one or two songs full whereas my intp friend can recall almost all the songs we picked and the lyrics despite not even memorising them the day before our karaoke meetup.
As for Te and Ti i dare say im more analytical. I do respect authority but tend to think nothing much of it and i think respect for others comes higher than authority.
I feel that i either never knew who i was or have changed till im unrecognisable even to myself. Growing up i was shy and quiet but was a jokester and liked having fun and lightening moods, but i hated it when people said i was quiet. It always seemed like being quiet was a bad thing to me. I then decided to be more open and friendly to avoid people saying that. They of course didnt mean it but it was a personal disgust for that word to me. Usually people who didnt know me would say that or when i was merely thinking something. I would also occasionally get a "hey how come u look so sad?" Or a "you ok? You look kinda sad" i got this so many times till i got immune because all it was was my thinking face. I felt as if i became some sort of a person who talked too much and couldnt stand awkward silences, i would initiate conversations if the other party didnt talk or seemed awkward. If alone with a close friend i would talk like my normal self which was more low and no tonal variations. But with more outgoing people my voice would get excited (unknowingly) and over time i realised this part of me felt unreal. But it has led me to be rather comfortable in situations with other people whom ive just met. I would speak to them as if they were close to me or joke around and instill some laughs.
What is it that i am, i think im something but nothing is fitting the more i think into it.
Any insights on this peeps? And can anyone be in a loop for a many years? Cuz i feel my self control is out of the window.
But anyway im always thinking about things and analyzing every single thing around me. Sometimes i do think i use Fi when i see my colleagues passing food around and everyone receiving one, most of them have done this to share and care for our teabreak, yet i find myself guilty and rather self centered that i have not done anything but always accepting food from them. We're not obliged to be the giver of the food but i see their hearts much bigger than mine and more willing to share and ask everyone. The guilt then keeps coming in and im thinking of buying better food for them in future but in the meantime i get uneasy with all this.
Then there is the Si part of it. I always say "hey the food doesnt taste as good as it was" or " that smell reminds me of something" etc. Isnt this a really Si trait? But i dont have a concrete memory of things and sometimes doubt myself if i even remember the events properly and factually. Si also is better with money, i suck at it and am extremely bad with money. I have a good eye for bright colors and nice designs and am always attracted to buying them when i see something to my perfectionist tastes. Si is also good with faces, names and remembering things. Whilst i am good with faces and names, i struggle to recall song lyrics of any song,i usually remember one or two songs full whereas my intp friend can recall almost all the songs we picked and the lyrics despite not even memorising them the day before our karaoke meetup.
As for Te and Ti i dare say im more analytical. I do respect authority but tend to think nothing much of it and i think respect for others comes higher than authority.
I feel that i either never knew who i was or have changed till im unrecognisable even to myself. Growing up i was shy and quiet but was a jokester and liked having fun and lightening moods, but i hated it when people said i was quiet. It always seemed like being quiet was a bad thing to me. I then decided to be more open and friendly to avoid people saying that. They of course didnt mean it but it was a personal disgust for that word to me. Usually people who didnt know me would say that or when i was merely thinking something. I would also occasionally get a "hey how come u look so sad?" Or a "you ok? You look kinda sad" i got this so many times till i got immune because all it was was my thinking face. I felt as if i became some sort of a person who talked too much and couldnt stand awkward silences, i would initiate conversations if the other party didnt talk or seemed awkward. If alone with a close friend i would talk like my normal self which was more low and no tonal variations. But with more outgoing people my voice would get excited (unknowingly) and over time i realised this part of me felt unreal. But it has led me to be rather comfortable in situations with other people whom ive just met. I would speak to them as if they were close to me or joke around and instill some laughs.
What is it that i am, i think im something but nothing is fitting the more i think into it.
Any insights on this peeps? And can anyone be in a loop for a many years? Cuz i feel my self control is out of the window.