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In my view, middle is on to something--the sacrifice of our egos. This may not be really possible in human expression, but perhaps when ego takes a back seat then we are not as concerned about how it should be done or holding up ideals of living perfect love to strive toward. To my view, that striving is very likely to be about building and supporting a sense of ego rather than loving. Maybe if the sacrifice is of our egos then we are freed to truly love and that love finds a natural balance that sustains both.
Agree. If you spend too much time focusing on what you don't want to sacrifice or what you don't want to have to give up, you can miss out on understanding what it means to love someone. I think today, we've come to look at love as being all about us, what we want, need, and should have - a very self centered notion of love, which can get in the way of understanding what love is about ultimately. Love is a verb - it's a thought and action word. If you can't put your needs or desires aside on some level for the person you care about/love, then can it really be love. Real love will always have an element of selflessness, if you truly care about the person.
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